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On second thought, this doesn't belong here. Mods can you move this to the relationship forum?
So my GF and I are talking on the phone, chitchatting about whatever, when we start to talk about how our conversations are going. She's worried that we don't talk on the phone enough since I'm going overseas again and we will only be able to talk on the phone. It's important for us to have good, "stimulating" conversation while we're on the phone, so that we can feel closer to each other when we're apart. Apparently, I haven't been doing that for her. In fact, I am such a bad conversationalist that I have never left her feeling satisfied after talking, whether that be on AIM or on the phone. Apparently, I have been asking her the same questions over and over again. So now, she's mad at me for 1) being a little miffed that she just made me feel like crap for being a bad conversationalist and 2) for not "understanding" what she means when she says all this. Honestly, WTF am I supposed to do? Apparently, I can't even ask her what's going on in her life. I'm supposed to start out our conversations with some great amazing story that's happened to me and she is supposed to feel enriched by this.
So my GF and I are talking on the phone, chitchatting about whatever, when we start to talk about how our conversations are going. She's worried that we don't talk on the phone enough since I'm going overseas again and we will only be able to talk on the phone. It's important for us to have good, "stimulating" conversation while we're on the phone, so that we can feel closer to each other when we're apart. Apparently, I haven't been doing that for her. In fact, I am such a bad conversationalist that I have never left her feeling satisfied after talking, whether that be on AIM or on the phone. Apparently, I have been asking her the same questions over and over again. So now, she's mad at me for 1) being a little miffed that she just made me feel like crap for being a bad conversationalist and 2) for not "understanding" what she means when she says all this. Honestly, WTF am I supposed to do? Apparently, I can't even ask her what's going on in her life. I'm supposed to start out our conversations with some great amazing story that's happened to me and she is supposed to feel enriched by this.