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(1) You need to get yourself organized. Now. Those of you considering going to a Carib school, that is. Organization is key. If you can't organize yourself, you will fail.
(2) Every decision you make, every thing you do (undergrads to recently matriculated), has downstream effects. Everything. Choose wisely. This goes for the big ones like what school to attend, to whether or not you should go hang out at the local bar that night instead of studying because that cute bartender might be there and you can sit there and have a beer and chat them up. Make the right decisions. Life is long.
(3) You are going to be in debt. Massive debt. Debt you can't possibly imagine right now. Sallie Mae is a cruel mistress, and she will hound you like a scorned lover if you try to spite her. While getting yourself into this debt, recognize that you will have to someday get yourself out of it. Let this be your daily motivator.
(4) Keep meticulous records. **READ THAT AGAIN*** Keep meticulous records. A lot of you have gotten to this stage in the game (ie considering Carib schools) because you have been... ahem... perhaps a little "sloppy" in your life to this point. Now is the time to change that. Dedicate at least 15 minutes every day to organizing yourself. When you get up in the morning, or before you go to bed at night. Preferably both. It doesn't take a long time. Like Nike adverts say, "Just do it."
(5) Be prepared to plumb the depths of humility. Some people will try to break you in ways you cannot fathom right now. They will try to put you in your place. They will try to get you in trouble. They will talk about you behind your back. They will step on you trying to get over you. You will have to eat a lot of crow, and you will have to maintain that level of "inner confidence" to get you through it. You will get talked to like you are a 7-year-old from time to time. Just take your beatings. And, always remember, knowledge and honesty is the best defense.
(6) Don't lie. Don't lie to your colleagues. Don't lie to yourself. Don't lie to the important people in your life. If you are in trouble, ask for help from someone you can trust. If you're not sure of something, say so. I've worked (literally) with hundreds and hundreds of medical students and residents from all types of schools (from, yes, Harvard to India to the supposed crappy Carib schools). The ones who get in trouble are the liars. Once you abuse someone's trust, it's really really hard to earn it back. Believe this.
(7) If you are psycho, choose another line of work. Be honest with yourself. You know if you are psycho. DO NOT go into medicine. There are enough nutjobs in the medical profession, and believe me when I tell you that they have a REALLY hard time functioning effectively. We don't need any more. If you are psycho, you will get found out, ostracized, and will find yourself in a lot of debt without anything to show for it and/or struggling to get by.
(8) Lastly, don't procrastinate. Procrastinators always lose in the end. Their work isn't as good. This is the culmination of all of the above advice.
IGNORE THIS ADVICE AT YOUR OWN PERIL! If you do follow the above, the "big picture" stuff I've laid out, you will succeed. The details will work themselves out. Trust me. I've been there, I've made my share of mistakes, but I kept the core principles above intact. Learn from them. Don't make the BIG mistakes.
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(2) Every decision you make, every thing you do (undergrads to recently matriculated), has downstream effects. Everything. Choose wisely. This goes for the big ones like what school to attend, to whether or not you should go hang out at the local bar that night instead of studying because that cute bartender might be there and you can sit there and have a beer and chat them up. Make the right decisions. Life is long.
(3) You are going to be in debt. Massive debt. Debt you can't possibly imagine right now. Sallie Mae is a cruel mistress, and she will hound you like a scorned lover if you try to spite her. While getting yourself into this debt, recognize that you will have to someday get yourself out of it. Let this be your daily motivator.
(4) Keep meticulous records. **READ THAT AGAIN*** Keep meticulous records. A lot of you have gotten to this stage in the game (ie considering Carib schools) because you have been... ahem... perhaps a little "sloppy" in your life to this point. Now is the time to change that. Dedicate at least 15 minutes every day to organizing yourself. When you get up in the morning, or before you go to bed at night. Preferably both. It doesn't take a long time. Like Nike adverts say, "Just do it."
(5) Be prepared to plumb the depths of humility. Some people will try to break you in ways you cannot fathom right now. They will try to put you in your place. They will try to get you in trouble. They will talk about you behind your back. They will step on you trying to get over you. You will have to eat a lot of crow, and you will have to maintain that level of "inner confidence" to get you through it. You will get talked to like you are a 7-year-old from time to time. Just take your beatings. And, always remember, knowledge and honesty is the best defense.
(6) Don't lie. Don't lie to your colleagues. Don't lie to yourself. Don't lie to the important people in your life. If you are in trouble, ask for help from someone you can trust. If you're not sure of something, say so. I've worked (literally) with hundreds and hundreds of medical students and residents from all types of schools (from, yes, Harvard to India to the supposed crappy Carib schools). The ones who get in trouble are the liars. Once you abuse someone's trust, it's really really hard to earn it back. Believe this.
(7) If you are psycho, choose another line of work. Be honest with yourself. You know if you are psycho. DO NOT go into medicine. There are enough nutjobs in the medical profession, and believe me when I tell you that they have a REALLY hard time functioning effectively. We don't need any more. If you are psycho, you will get found out, ostracized, and will find yourself in a lot of debt without anything to show for it and/or struggling to get by.
(8) Lastly, don't procrastinate. Procrastinators always lose in the end. Their work isn't as good. This is the culmination of all of the above advice.
IGNORE THIS ADVICE AT YOUR OWN PERIL! If you do follow the above, the "big picture" stuff I've laid out, you will succeed. The details will work themselves out. Trust me. I've been there, I've made my share of mistakes, but I kept the core principles above intact. Learn from them. Don't make the BIG mistakes.
-Skip