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The impression
@AquaticSunrise13 's recent post gave me was that of a new new-ish sdn user. Checked out his profile to understand why he's got 555 posts, landed on this thread (he's not the OP), and I'm thinking things could've been handled so much better. According to him, he's got a ~3.8 GPA, did all his prereqs and has solid letters. That means he's done something right. His views on DOs vs MDs is a little off, but that doesn't mean he's immature. It means he's uninformed - something that we can change if we are patient.
He did poorly on the MCAT for the first time. It can be fixed. I agree with
@thewarcow, the responses I'm seeing is all telling him how he won't get in, giving him a hard time, doom and gloom. (not everyone I tagged did this) We can be realistic and harsh but still respectful, tolerant, and optimistic. In his case especially where all he needs is a nice MCAT score. I'm just shaking my head thinking if ANY of these experienced users was willing to say "hey I've been down this road before, let me know how you studied for the first attempt. i'll give you pointers, you follow em, if it doesn't work out I'll refer you to another med student I know on here.", he'd be so much farther along by now. I know the dude's smart enough to crack it, but some people just need that extra push, encouragement, and guidance. Given that there are so many questionable premed advisors and test prep tutors out there, he and others like him need our help.
I think sdn will be a much more useful place if people treated each other with more optimism, dignity, and enthusiasm to help while keeping it real. I haven't frickin even taken the MCAT when he posted in this thread, and I've since graduated ug in 3y and got a DO spot. Imagine where Aquatic would be today if any one of you guys said eyy I gotchu message me. The net effect of reaching out to him would have
multiplied over time; from the start, he might not have chosen to hire mcat tutors and also might not have scored low two more effing times.
We aren't obliged to help because it's our time and we busy. But if we choose to help, please make it count!