What if you pass up an opportunity in HOPES of getting in "somewhere you see yourself happiest at, somewhere you would love the most, somewhere you get to hang out with lovely people(maybe find your wife🙂)" and you don't get in the next year? There's supposed to be 20% more applicants, so it should only be getting more difficult every year.
"and later in your life you can talk about it with a big smile on your face." Or, later in life like my father, you will be talking about what might have been. "If I'd only had the forethought to take advantage of the opportunities presented to me, our lives would be different." He says this while standing on an atrophied right leg that we don't have the money or insurance to pay for a knee replacement. Take it from someone who grew up on grilled cheese and rice for dinner. Take advantage of the opportunity.
My basketball coach had a motto we all had to live by, "Don't pass up a good shot, for a better one." Words to live by.