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For the lab assistant positions, I know people usually email the faculty that they are interested in doing research with (no affiliation is needed, could be different school also) and then get the positions after interviews and such. I guess just walking around might be invasive for some faculty members.
I thought shadowing was also contacting the person you are interested in shadowing and asking that person whether they are okay with it. I guess what you are saying is that I need some organization or faculty members that can "vouch" for me, right?
Yea... couldn't find their emails and numbers but I should look more online for them. But what about the reference letter? is that only for some doctors?
Please don't intrude and solicit without a decent reason. This is why networking is so important since cold calls are bad enough as is.Hey, guys! Today, I walked into a doctor's office (because I could not find his email or phone number) with my CV and asked the doctor whether I can shadow him (he was quite old). He looked a bit irritated and said I need a reference letter and that just walking into his office was "not how things are done". He also said things in the line of "oh, I don't know you, how can I trust you, why you just walking in like that, who the heck are you". Honestly, I was little offended. Why couldn't he just get to know me and look at my CV, giving me a chance to explain myself to him? Was I being rude and is getting a reference letter a customary thing? Please help!
I've never heard of anyone asking for a reference letter before.
Hey, guys! Today, I walked into a doctor's office (because I could not find his email or phone number) with my CV and asked the doctor whether I can shadow him (he was quite old). He looked a bit irritated and said I need a reference letter and that just walking into his office was "not how things are done". He also said things in the line of "oh, I don't know you, how can I trust you, why you just walking in like that, who the heck are you". Honestly, I was little offended. Why couldn't he just get to know me and look at my CV, giving me a chance to explain myself to him? Was I being rude and is getting a reference letter a customary thing? Please help!
For jobs, yes. But I've never heard of anyone asking for a reference letter to shadow for a couple of shifts. Perhaps that's more common in private practice? I work in a hospital and students looking to shadow are treated basically the same as volunteers. They go through training with HR but aren't asked to provide references or anything.References are essential. You need someone to vouch for your sense of responsibility.
True, you need a lot of responsibility to stand back and watch 🙄References are essential. You need someone to vouch for your sense of responsibility.
Hey, guys! Today, I walked into a doctor's office (because I could not find his email or phone number) with my CV and asked the doctor whether I can shadow him (he was quite old). He looked a bit irritated and said I need a reference letter and that just walking into his office was "not how things are done". He also said things in the line of "oh, I don't know you, how can I trust you, why you just walking in like that, who the heck are you". Honestly, I was little offended. Why couldn't he just get to know me and look at my CV, giving me a chance to explain myself to him? Was I being rude and is getting a reference letter a customary thing? Please help!
Yea... couldn't find their emails and numbers but I should look more online for them. But what about the reference letter? is that only for some doctors?
Curious to hear @mimelim thoughts on the matter.
For jobs, yes. But I've never heard of anyone asking for a reference letter to shadow for a couple of shifts. Perhaps that's more common in private practice? I work in a hospital and students looking to shadow are treated basically the same as volunteers. They go through training with HR but aren't asked to provide references or anything.
Nevertheless, OP, if you find that many doctors you're approaching are asking for reference letters, then get one. But I honestly suspect that this was that doctor's way of telling you to get lost.
True, you need a lot of responsibility to stand back and watch 🙄
You seem to feel entitled to other's time/energy/resources just because they are of benefit to you.
Students who shadow are a huge potential liability for the physician. The student might say something inappropriate to a patient, or worse, describe or name patients and their medical conditions to outsiders. This exposes the physician to charges of violating confidentiality,which could result in lawsuits or licensing issues.
In his/her defense, your physician would be able to say, " Some kid came in off the street and said he wanted to watch, so I let him. I have no idea who he was, but he had a CV he typed up. "
This is worth highlighting, given the attitude OP has displayed.