Relationships

[ricegirl]

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Hey,

Wondering how many of you guys out there are in relationships right now. How big of a role does s/he play in deciding which school to attend? What are your future plans, esp if you are going to be separated? If you intend to continue with a long distance relationship (or are in one now), what is your, as a couple, plan of action?

I know that there's another forum that is completely devoted to this topic, but thought maybe you guys would be able to add some insight. I'm feeling very conflicted trying to please a lot of people, including myself, with my future plans.

Thanks -
ricegirl

 

[Toothfairy]

Hi ricegirl,

I saw your post and thought I would reply. I hope my advice will help you out! I am currently engaged. My future hubby supports my decision to attend dental school 100%, and I am very thankful for that. Did he play a part in choosing where I would go? YES! I knew that he was the one I wanted to be with, and vice versa. I wanted him to be just as excited about where I attended as I would be. I knew we both needed to be content to make things work; however, he was willing to travel anywhere so that I could go to school. Luckily, I was accepted to UIC, which is near both of our families. I don't know for sure how serious your relationship is, but I do know this...your heart really will tell you what is best for you to do. If I were in your situation, I would definitely have a deep, honest talk with my guy and find out what he feels about the whole situation. Does he support your decision? Is he willing to travel with you, if he can? If he still has school to finish up, would he be committed to having a long distance relationship, until he finished? Does he want you to stay close by? There are many questions to ponder. If you do decide to have a long distance relationship, remember that communication is key to staying together. You both have to be really strong and open with each other. If the two of you are not that serious, make yourself happy first. If the two of you were meant to be together, it will happen, regardless of your decision. If it does not end up working out, it just means that someone bigger and better is out there waiting for you. Love is a risk that is really be worth taking. Well, I sure hope this made sense and helped you out a little bit. Good luck!
🙂

 

[ricegirl]

hey toothfairy,

thanks for the reply. also -- thanks to whoever emailed me.

🙂
ricegirl