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I found a research mentor to work with. He is a very successful academic surgeon in a certain subspecialty and his group publishes nearly 10 or more clinical research papers per year. Yes some are just cases and chart reviews, but he owns a lot of data and guides students to be successful in research work.
However, I accidentally discovered his personal story by googling his name. I only looked him up on pubmed before meeting him. During his fellowship, he and his ex-girlfriend had a child and he gave up the custody. After this incident, he was dating another woman who is an actress and they were engaged. He lied about his child to her and she found out after someone blackmailed them about his child. And their engagement was broken and he attempted to take her to court to get back the engagement ring. This happened 4 years ago and now he is married.
I am very concerned about this because my previous mentors during undergrad and postbacc were not only renowned researchers but also they had personal values I was able to adopt. It was their help that enabled me to get into medical school and I not only think about becoming a good physician but also a good boy friend/husband in the future who takes responsibility.
Do I need to be concerned? or I must separate professional and personal areas?
However, I accidentally discovered his personal story by googling his name. I only looked him up on pubmed before meeting him. During his fellowship, he and his ex-girlfriend had a child and he gave up the custody. After this incident, he was dating another woman who is an actress and they were engaged. He lied about his child to her and she found out after someone blackmailed them about his child. And their engagement was broken and he attempted to take her to court to get back the engagement ring. This happened 4 years ago and now he is married.
I am very concerned about this because my previous mentors during undergrad and postbacc were not only renowned researchers but also they had personal values I was able to adopt. It was their help that enabled me to get into medical school and I not only think about becoming a good physician but also a good boy friend/husband in the future who takes responsibility.
Do I need to be concerned? or I must separate professional and personal areas?