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If someone's working a million hours a week, around the clock, there is literally no time to make. Have you never been in those shoes in a full-time job, working 70+ hours/week, overnight, on call, sleep- and food-deprived, etc? I'm not in medicine, but this type of schedule is common in the USA in many jobs.I've always been under the impression that if a person has a bit of interest they'll make time for you.
This is illogical in light of:Is it really impossible to meet up like he says, or is he just not interested?
I guess I got asked that question years ago on OKCupid, so I ended up just disabling my account (best decision ever). You have a point. I dunno. Maybe his heart desires companionship (we're all human), but life circumstances simply don't allow it.But what is the point of being on a dating site if you don't plan on meeting people?
Ummm apparently this guy who signed up for a dating app and gave me his phone number?
He works 60 each week at the hospital he is at.
I'm definitely not a boy
Also I have a family member who is a doctor, she got married in med school, had her first child in med school, had her second child in residency. I asked her how she managed to balance it all. She smiled and said "It was a priority for me, when something is a priority for you, you make it happen."
Anyway, as suggested, last Sunday I told him to look at his schedule and pick a day and time that works best for him and he still hasn't said anything about meeting up.
I appreciate the replies. Okay.... looks like we are split on this one. Some people are saying he is definitely not interested because even residents can find time to date; others say that residents are busy and to be more patient and empathetic. Hmmmmm......
I appreciate the replies. Okay.... looks like we are split on this one. Some people are saying he is definitely not interested because even residents can find time to date; others say that residents are busy and to be more patient and empathetic. Hmmmmm......
Anyway, as suggested, last Sunday I told him to look at his schedule and pick a day and time that works best for him and he still hasn't said anything about meeting up.