1) Please please please make sure that my interviewers actually know that I'm coming. I went to a school where the person that I was most interested in working with actually forgot that I was coming and wasn't on campus.... we had to do the interview by phone a week later. This was really lame and has moved this school to the bottom of my list. Thx
I think you are probably a little off base by moving a school to the bottom of your list because 1 faculty member forgot you were coming. First off, it happens to everyone at least once in the interview process. Secondly, people are human and they forget things sometimes. You will be a busy PI one day and will forget, too. It is certainly not personal, because you mean nothing to that person anyway. Most importantly, even if that 1 PI is the biggest duech in the world, I think it is totally ridiculous to rule out a school because of 1 person.
First off, there is probably 99% chance that if you went there you wouldn't end up working in the person's lab anyway. Secondly, if you are going to judge an institution made up of probably 5-10k people based on 1 person, I would say your understanding of istatistical representation is very poor.
I don't mean this as a personal attack, it is just this kind of thinking that annoys me about applicants more than anything else. I hear the same main arguments against schools all the time:
1. some PI they interviewed with wasn't nice
2. their host never studied/studied too much, drank/didn't drink, liked the yankees/like the mets, etc
3. the person who gave them a tour was cool/not cool
This is ridiculous. If you base a decision toabout spending 8 years of your life studying medicine on 1 person you met on an interview, IMHO your judgment is incredibly flawed. Go where you will be in position to learn best and become the best doctor/researcher. You will find people you like and people you hate wherever you go in the world. Whomever of those 2 you may come across on 1 interview day is completely random.