I disagree that there aren't enough people in the world who are smart enough and empathetic enough to practice good medicine, particularly since both critical thinking and empathy can be taught to some extent. Every doctor in the world doesn't need to be Einstein. Not saying doctors should be of average/below average intelligence by any means - you have to be pretty smart, but you don't have to be an absolute genius to be a good doctor in 90% of circumstances. Nor does every doctor have to be a perfect angel every second of every patient encounter. I'm not arguing an "extreme."
As to your argument about "the heart of the question," I'm also arguing that doctors who are not empathetic, good listeners, etc. (it's not just being "sociable") will struggle to practice good medicine under many circumstances. If you're a surgeon, sure, maybe you could get away with not getting a good history or not helping a patient adhere to a treatment plan. But the bulk of physicians need to have these skills to appropriately diagnose and treat their patient population, and I have seen physicians without these skills fail at this in the clinic.
Seems like you took this a little more personally than I intended it. Sorry if I was short with you - it wasn't my intention.
I didn't put words in anyone's mouth. I literally quoted your post (and others') that directly compared nice dumb doctors to smart mean ones. That is a false dichotomy and not a logical argument in any way. For most people, those aren't the only two choices. Or are you saying that's not what you intended to do when you said "I’d rather have a brilliant doctor than a nice one who has no idea what’s wrong with me."? If that's the case, I apologize for misunderstanding your statement.
Thanks, but I'm not blessed enough to have avoided the situation you describe. My favorite doctors on my care team, whether primary care or specialists, have been ones that are smart and nice. Of the dozens of doctors I've watched work with hundreds of patients on clinical rotations, the best ones are smart and nice. Yes, there are some doctors out there who have poor clinical knowledge/skills but are nice people, and some who are knowledgeable and skilled but have no people skills at all. But I would argue that this is a minority of practicing physicians, particularly among young physicians/medical students as many schools make the shift towards emphasizing things like community service and people skills in addition to stats that are indicative of success in medical school and beyond.