First off, the whole sympathy thing is ******ed, sympathy would imply some sort of reason she isn't there to take her own notes. The girl's been blowing off class. If she was a 'friend', she wouldn't expect hers to do her work for her, and would thus be in class, and the whole situation could be avoided.
It's like having a roomate that doesn't do dishes. I don't care if I wash a plate or bowl or some silverware that isn't mine from time to time. But when they begin dumping their dishes in the sink while I'm doing some, THAT'S when its going to hit the fan. Its no different with notes. Hey, miss a class or two, no problem, it happens, I'll be more than willing to photocopy them for you myself (no matter what, they aren't leaving my possession; bad experiences in the past). But expect me to do it for you for an extended period because you've got other things to do? Ain't happening.
It has nothing to do with getting good grades, or being a 'good friend', or helping out with someone who wasn't there for a day. Its about people expecting something of you that they won't do themselves (notice I say WON'T, not can't).
And OSUdoc: you should start writing in haiku. You're almost there as it is, and at least that way we would know *some* thought went into your post, even if it's not evident by content.