I'm new to the forum, but my fiancee isn't. He's supposed to be starting medical school next September, in New Jersey. I am 34 and want to start a family in the next couple years, but I am concerned about the amount of time he'll have to be a father, and the amount of time I'll be able to spend with him in general. Does anyone have any direct experience being married to a med student and/or starting a family while your spouse is in med school? I'd love to hear from you.