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So this may have been covered already in previous topics, but it seems to typically be a female student asking for advice, so this is a little bit different.
I am currently married (we celebrated our first anniversary this past November) and am currently still finishing my degree before applying. My wife and I both want to start a family, and are thinking to "try" once in med school.
The question(s) that plague me are: Which years seem to work best? What challenges can I expect, and what challenges will she face? She currently works as a paralegal, but will want to stay home to raise the baby(s). Is this something we could work out in theory? Can extra loans be taken out so that neither of us have to work while I'm in school and she's raising the baby? Are there support networks in place for young families going through the same thing?
Waiting until residency isn't likely, and I've read that this can be more nightmarish than doing so in the first couple, or fourth year of med school.
Any advice is greatly appreciated, and will no doubt alleviate her own stress about the issue as well as mine.
I am currently married (we celebrated our first anniversary this past November) and am currently still finishing my degree before applying. My wife and I both want to start a family, and are thinking to "try" once in med school.
The question(s) that plague me are: Which years seem to work best? What challenges can I expect, and what challenges will she face? She currently works as a paralegal, but will want to stay home to raise the baby(s). Is this something we could work out in theory? Can extra loans be taken out so that neither of us have to work while I'm in school and she's raising the baby? Are there support networks in place for young families going through the same thing?
Waiting until residency isn't likely, and I've read that this can be more nightmarish than doing so in the first couple, or fourth year of med school.
Any advice is greatly appreciated, and will no doubt alleviate her own stress about the issue as well as mine.