That is a good deal! I live in midtown and I pay 1600, which is actually pretty good, since I can just walk over to school. If cost of living is the decisive factor, I would go with SUNY. I was in your shoes last year, and I did a very detailed comparison of the two, and SUNY came out to be the cheapest, even with the high cost of living. After a year, your tuition will only be like 13000ish, something NECO can't even compare to! And after all, it is New York City
As far as other things are concerned..food is cheap, depends on where you eat though. I eat out almost everyday, and it's about 10 bucks a day. Groceries..expensive in midtown, but everywhere else it's okay. Clothes/shopping: ranges from really cheap to really expensive!! But I <3 shopping in NY..a girl's dream come true
Going out: Not bad at all. Most places have happy hours..partying in NY don't compare to partying in Boston!
So overall, it's not that bad. I think NECO is more expensive, because living in Boston is almost as bad as NY.