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Brand new gen Surg intern here. I was told repeatedly that I was "way too nice" to be a surgeon. Admittedly, I've been irked by 95% of the personalities I've encountered in surgery. But somehow, I loved the OR enough to press on.
Now, a new concern has come to light. I think the ridiculous tantrums my seniors and attendings throw are nauseating, and I don't care about them on a conscious level. But... I also don't learn when I'm being pimped and screamed at. I also find that I can't recall information in such an environment. Ditto for trying to watch and pick up on procedures. It's not that I'm sobbing in the corner scared, it's just that I somehow focus more on the anger than the actual right answer, leaving me in a perpetual state of "wait a second, WHAT was that again?!" In addition, I can read about a procedure and then go see one, but still end up feeling lost unless someone is talking me through the steps. Obviously, a steady stream of questions isn't usually well-received, but that's what it would take for me to really understand what's going on. The same goes for stupid things like draping: I'm supposed to pick up on it by watching once, but then when I try and position my hand the wrong way or something, I get yelled at and still don't quite understand what I did. I need to try things a couple of times in a low-pressure environment if I'm really going to get them down pat. It doesn't need to be outside the OR (although a couple of dry runs would be ideal) I just need someone there who will be a little nicer about it if I'm going to do any actual learning.
I'm "book smart," 260's on both steps and AOA, but I honestly worry that I may have a learning disability that will make it impossible for me to learn surgery. The "see one, do one, teach one" method just isn't cutting it. Oddly, I still find that I love the OR (although, increasingly, I'm getting a bit of "fear response" when I'm there.) I would still like to stick with surgery, but fear that I'm not teachable. Do I need to see about switching, and if so... What next?
Now, a new concern has come to light. I think the ridiculous tantrums my seniors and attendings throw are nauseating, and I don't care about them on a conscious level. But... I also don't learn when I'm being pimped and screamed at. I also find that I can't recall information in such an environment. Ditto for trying to watch and pick up on procedures. It's not that I'm sobbing in the corner scared, it's just that I somehow focus more on the anger than the actual right answer, leaving me in a perpetual state of "wait a second, WHAT was that again?!" In addition, I can read about a procedure and then go see one, but still end up feeling lost unless someone is talking me through the steps. Obviously, a steady stream of questions isn't usually well-received, but that's what it would take for me to really understand what's going on. The same goes for stupid things like draping: I'm supposed to pick up on it by watching once, but then when I try and position my hand the wrong way or something, I get yelled at and still don't quite understand what I did. I need to try things a couple of times in a low-pressure environment if I'm really going to get them down pat. It doesn't need to be outside the OR (although a couple of dry runs would be ideal) I just need someone there who will be a little nicer about it if I'm going to do any actual learning.
I'm "book smart," 260's on both steps and AOA, but I honestly worry that I may have a learning disability that will make it impossible for me to learn surgery. The "see one, do one, teach one" method just isn't cutting it. Oddly, I still find that I love the OR (although, increasingly, I'm getting a bit of "fear response" when I'm there.) I would still like to stick with surgery, but fear that I'm not teachable. Do I need to see about switching, and if so... What next?