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Hey,
Ok - I've done some thinking - and I'm not going to participate in any AA related discussions. I really don't agree with AA - and I think that my method of argument has been really misconstrued by a ton of people, with the result being that people think I'm a racist.
That comment truly hurts me - because I am definitely not a racist. So I'm sorry to any URMs out there that took my anti-AA comments to mean that I'm somehow anti-URM. I'm not, and I never will be.
For the URMs out there, when you are arguing passionately with a non-URM about AA - please just try to recognize that its hard for a white to argue against AA without sounding racist. I thought I could do it, but obviously I can't. And please realize that when you call someone a racist - it really truly does hurt. It takes things to a whole new level, and paints them into a corner that they don't want to be in.
So I'm willing to not even participate in these discussions any more, because if someone out there takes my comments as racist - then it makes me feel bad cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings - either deliberately or not. Just please remember that one can be vehemently anti-AA and not the least bit racist. I realize that when I argue I tend to get a little harsh - and thats probably why people think I'm racist. So I'm sorry about that.
I hope everyone on SDN gets into med school and gets to follow their dream. Sorry if I pissed anyone off, it was never my intention. Here's to a day when URMs don't need AA because they are well established in all sectors of society.
Later,
Dave
Ok - I've done some thinking - and I'm not going to participate in any AA related discussions. I really don't agree with AA - and I think that my method of argument has been really misconstrued by a ton of people, with the result being that people think I'm a racist.
That comment truly hurts me - because I am definitely not a racist. So I'm sorry to any URMs out there that took my anti-AA comments to mean that I'm somehow anti-URM. I'm not, and I never will be.
For the URMs out there, when you are arguing passionately with a non-URM about AA - please just try to recognize that its hard for a white to argue against AA without sounding racist. I thought I could do it, but obviously I can't. And please realize that when you call someone a racist - it really truly does hurt. It takes things to a whole new level, and paints them into a corner that they don't want to be in.
So I'm willing to not even participate in these discussions any more, because if someone out there takes my comments as racist - then it makes me feel bad cause I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings - either deliberately or not. Just please remember that one can be vehemently anti-AA and not the least bit racist. I realize that when I argue I tend to get a little harsh - and thats probably why people think I'm racist. So I'm sorry about that.
I hope everyone on SDN gets into med school and gets to follow their dream. Sorry if I pissed anyone off, it was never my intention. Here's to a day when URMs don't need AA because they are well established in all sectors of society.
Later,
Dave
