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I think the problem with this (for me) is that if today I did what made me happiest now there is no way on earth that I would have gone to two physics classes and then be working a 3-11 shift at the hospital (and this is the non-animal kind of hospital). I definitely would be riding a horse on the beach somewhere, and blowing all the money I've saved for an apartment deposit and rabies shots on something less mundane.
I think I get what you are saying - that the opposite extreme of only ever thinking about the future can lead to a less enjoyable present. Personally I think neither extreme works - I have to consider the present and the future when I make choices about how to spend my time and money.
I think what makes me weird is that I love what I am doing, even now, when I'm in grad school. Even when stuff gets hard (and it does! last week was finals week and it was brutal!) I feel like I am so fortunate to be here.
But yeah, obviously there will be things that I don't enjoy doing, but if I can manage a way to enjoy it more than the alternative then that's still okay to me. In other words, if I'm comparing vet school A and vet school B, I'll still have to take classes I don't like at both (and a LOT of them will be stuff I don't like, since I don't like the structure of anatomy and a lot of parts of physiology courses), but to me a bigger concern than the cost of them is minimizing "stuff that I won't like while I'm there" as much as I possibly can. If those factors at A and B are equal and the cost of A is lower, then yeah I'd be stupid not to go to A. However, if there seem to be a lot of factors at B that I would enjoy a whole lot more, then I'm going to go there even if the cost of A is lower.