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Ah I think there's a bit of a communication breakdown here.
I'm the OP, by the way, but I wasn't posting anything about being worried about approaching girls or whatever the guitar kid was talking about.
And to clarify my dilemma, it's specifically that I just don't have time to date much. I'm a bit of a slow studier/learner and am interested in some competitive fields, so studying hard to do well takes up just about all my time, which sucks. Hence, less time to date consistently, and when you can't devote a lot of attention to a girl, most of the time that doesn't last.
*sigh* Communication Breakdown, It's always the same...
yea, I didn't realize you were the OP. Hah! Sorry about that!
I understand where you're coming from about the time issue... but you'll be surprised about how understanding some girls can be. Not all girls require hours of your day in order for the relationship to work.
But honestly, at this point of your life I would say stay focused on school. It sucks, yeah... but it's a sacrifice you have to make if you can't put time aside for something you want. Will it last forever? No. Will it pay off? If landing that residency means that much to you, then yea.
Take my advise with a pinch of salt. I'm not a guru at this "relationship advise" stuff. That's why I just quote others and bold the parts that I like (throwing in the 👍's too).