Hey everyone. I'm really in need of some advice here, got a lot of issues I'm trying to sort out.
In short, I'm a third year in the 4th year of med school after repeat a year. I've barely been passing and I understand that in order to pass I need to work constantly and have no social life, no relationship, no friends, etc. This is taking a huge toll on me, especially now that I'm in clinicals. I passed Step 1 on the first go, but I've failed most of my shelves and haven't felt content with my life at all over the past 2 years. Overall, I enjoy the basic sciences, but for some reason medicine just doesn't click with me at all, and I've been incredibly apathetic about whether or not I fail out of school or graduate for the past few months. I feel that it's impending that I am going to fail out of my school and a part of me really wants to walk away and try to live a more stable life in another profession, but I really am afraid to talk about this with anyone close to me because I don't want to be perceived as a quitter.
I've always felt like I wanted to do primary care medicine prior to 3rd year, but I've come to realize in third year that I REALLY HATE family medicine and would not want to do that as my career. But realistically that's all I'm competitive for. A big factor keeping me from walking away is that I really liked psychiatry and could see myself going into that field, but I feel like being as burnt out and apathetic as I've been for this long is a very bad sign before residency.
I'm sorry this is rambling and all over the place, but just wondering if anybody had some neutral advice about what I should do? Thanks
In short, I'm a third year in the 4th year of med school after repeat a year. I've barely been passing and I understand that in order to pass I need to work constantly and have no social life, no relationship, no friends, etc. This is taking a huge toll on me, especially now that I'm in clinicals. I passed Step 1 on the first go, but I've failed most of my shelves and haven't felt content with my life at all over the past 2 years. Overall, I enjoy the basic sciences, but for some reason medicine just doesn't click with me at all, and I've been incredibly apathetic about whether or not I fail out of school or graduate for the past few months. I feel that it's impending that I am going to fail out of my school and a part of me really wants to walk away and try to live a more stable life in another profession, but I really am afraid to talk about this with anyone close to me because I don't want to be perceived as a quitter.
I've always felt like I wanted to do primary care medicine prior to 3rd year, but I've come to realize in third year that I REALLY HATE family medicine and would not want to do that as my career. But realistically that's all I'm competitive for. A big factor keeping me from walking away is that I really liked psychiatry and could see myself going into that field, but I feel like being as burnt out and apathetic as I've been for this long is a very bad sign before residency.
I'm sorry this is rambling and all over the place, but just wondering if anybody had some neutral advice about what I should do? Thanks