Hello all,
Thank you for reading my post.
I am currently in a long distance relationship of a few months with a student doctor who is completing his final year of surgical residency, then will continue with fellowship.
As he is often very busy, we have very little communication. While I write him daily, I would hear from him once in a few days in a form of a short few lines email or a ten minutes chat when I happen to catch him online, somedays when I am really lucky then we would skype. Lately, the already little communication have became even less. He said he have gotten more busy and stressful lately but didn't have the time to explain.
I trust him very much. Honestly, I do feel neglected. Sometimes I wonder if I am indeed in a relationship... it makes a long distance relationship harder, but I never expressed negatively and remained understanding because I feel very sorry about the stress and workload his is under. I don't ever wish to add on to his stress. Towards him, I am always cheerful and lovely.
I am not in the health field and have not a clue about what sort of schedule, timeline, workload you poor student doctors are under. He have never really filled me in either as he doesn't talk much about his work, or had much time to talk. Therefore, I wish some of you can shed some light on the workload, schedule, timeline, or any opinions your would like to share. Or maybe I am being led on and it is just his way of saying that he has started to dislike me and it is time for me to disappear.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. Any comments are greatly appreciated.
Thank you for reading my post.
I am currently in a long distance relationship of a few months with a student doctor who is completing his final year of surgical residency, then will continue with fellowship.
As he is often very busy, we have very little communication. While I write him daily, I would hear from him once in a few days in a form of a short few lines email or a ten minutes chat when I happen to catch him online, somedays when I am really lucky then we would skype. Lately, the already little communication have became even less. He said he have gotten more busy and stressful lately but didn't have the time to explain.
I trust him very much. Honestly, I do feel neglected. Sometimes I wonder if I am indeed in a relationship... it makes a long distance relationship harder, but I never expressed negatively and remained understanding because I feel very sorry about the stress and workload his is under. I don't ever wish to add on to his stress. Towards him, I am always cheerful and lovely.
I am not in the health field and have not a clue about what sort of schedule, timeline, workload you poor student doctors are under. He have never really filled me in either as he doesn't talk much about his work, or had much time to talk. Therefore, I wish some of you can shed some light on the workload, schedule, timeline, or any opinions your would like to share. Or maybe I am being led on and it is just his way of saying that he has started to dislike me and it is time for me to disappear.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. Any comments are greatly appreciated.