Agree with the above... i go to a "top 10" school, and various rotations have very different criteria for how many students get each grade. For instance, in surgery, there is no cutoff or set % for each grade, and in medicine, about 35% will get honors and another 40% or so will get HP. A lot of times, however, what the school considers "average" shelf scores are actually above the national mean, because our students are expected to be "better", so while you're not necessarily competing against other students, the standards for you as an individual are tougher.
If you're the kind of person who, as you described, tends to become 'withdrawn' when surrounded by more assertive people, then that's something you really need to work on regardless what school you go to. The reality is, these kinds of students are abundant in all schools, and of course even morer so in certain specialties... i have friends at other medical schools, and i don't think that the overall makeup of personalities is so different from the ones at mine. Just a thought 🙂.
- Quid