I'm not everyone.
@irishmom
Like I said: If there is a will, there is a way.
If you want something hard enough, you'll find a way to get it. People have worked hard as hell in almost every industry to get where they wanted. This is harder to do in paths that are not so linear (finance, law, etc.). You never know what connection you will make or who you will meet. My friend's uncle became one of richest developers in NY by randomly meeting a baseball player. Getting into surgery is not like this: your ability to match is purely a product of your abilities and work ethic (although good networking skills will always help). The status of super genius is not required for success, rather hard work, perseverance and consistent motivation will get you in the door. Luck is always good, however I don't believe that luck is purely random; to me it's a product of your work ethic (work hard = seem to get "lucky" more).
I know only the best make it. I know how difficult and competitive it is. You know what else is hard? Destroying the MCAT (more difficult imo) and getting into med school, ranking against a generally more competitive minded group of med students, destroying the USMLE, involving yourself in tons of research and EC's that are required for top residencies, and finally matching in the most desired surgical subspecialties. These are all equally, if not more difficult, than matching OMFS. All these professions are extremely difficult and competitive. Luckily, I'm competitive in nature.
I looked at previous match statistics and it doesn't seem like OMFS is that much more desired than other dental specialties. Seems like ortho, endo, and recently pedo have been almost the same in terms of competition. Also, I feel like the majority of students wouldn't really seek out OMFS since the shorting training/lack of residency are some of the factors that attracted them to dental school in the first place. I have a few friends entering dental school and they can not fathom the idea of doing OMFS (they want to be done with school and start working). I told my dentist about OMFS and he said that surgery disgusted him and he couldn't look for more than 5 minutes. I think it's a self-selecting group rather than everyone applying and only the top %5 matching. It's the top 5% of a much smaller population. The OMFS residents I've met are OMFS or nothing. These guys and gals could not see themselves doing anything else. Some wanted OMFS before undergrad and others realized their passion for surgery in dental school. Bottom line is: they were regular people who worked hard enough for something they envisioned. (Btw, not all of them were top students... some were very average, but excelled in showing their dedication and desire for oral surgery through tons of externships, EC's, and research).