Congrats on your acceptances!! Regardless of where u go, those three schools are all amazing. I think you get out of medical school what you put into it and the more opportunities that medical school provides, the more chances you have to reap the rewards of your hard work.
I believe any school in the NYC area will provide you with the best opportunities to grow both as a human being and as a future doctor. The city is loaded with quality hospitals in a small area that will allow you to perform away rotations. Let's say you all of a sudden you become interested in a specialty, I guarentee one of the hospitals in NYC will have an excellent program for you to do an away rotation in that specialty. If you go to Wake Forest or UCLA, you may have a harder time networking with someone since you would have to travel a distance to get to that hospital. I would assume all the doctors know all the doctors in their specialty in the NYC area. The same probably can't be said for that in Cali and NC.
Living in NYC for the four years you are there will also provide u a more diverse lifestyle and group of activities to choose from.
My vote is for AE, but any of them would be amazing!