wow...did i not read your post? or did you edit something? we are in the SAME situation. im from NYC (queens). Here was my story. I got into bing (too far), stony (waste..kind of), when i was talking about prestige i ment Fordham (my number 1 really wanted to go, but 38k tuition, and with scholarships, i just cant afford 17k per semester), NYU (forget about this schools price), and 2 others (both in NJ, stevens and rugers NB), however they were outof state, tuition, so same story.
I had to sadly, settle for CUNY. and it bothers me everyday. My best advice to you....apply to CUNY honors ...i assume ur from SI, apply to Honors college CSI, its cuny. You will get the best benefits there and the good honors classes instead of the dumb ones all the other cuny students have to take. However......what i say might very well be biased....but fordham is an very good school IMO. its ranked 61 in the country nationally, and i feel if you took the risk there, and had ur dedication / motivation, they WILL prepare you for med school...but i mean i didnt take the risk because of my parents and at that time i was still 17 and could not take out my own loan.....so i had to settle for the dumps. Good luck to you, if you have any other questions specifically (because i feel we relate), feel free to PM me, or ill check by here later to see how things progress.
Edit: something i forgot to add, i dont think you should go to pace...because its not that great of a school and its comparable to Cuny's. Hofstra is one tier higher (2nd), and wagner is i suppose a tier 2 school also. Schools like Binghamton and Fordham would be considered Tier 1, though Binghamton is public.