So I just learned today (via snail mail) that I got accepted to Tufts, and I was absolutely ecstatic. Best Christmas present ever! Tufts had always been my top school, and I've been telling nearly everyone in earshot so since forever. But... I'm Asian. With Asian parents. That means, all they know is to look at rankings, and push their kids towards the highest number regardless. That's how the Asian school system works, you take a test and go into a particular field and a particular university based on the numbers. Plus, they live in Taiwan, so that's pretty much all they know about the schools anyway; I may as well be throwing darts on a map (which is pretty much how applying for undergrad went). My mom in particular is the one who looks everything up online, and she's been sending me Excel spreadsheets of schools-by-rank since I started the application process.
Anyway, what I meant to say was... so I'm totally pumped up by the acceptance, and while responding to an e-mail from my dad I tack on a P.S. I got accepted to Tufts!!!
And the reply comes back, "Congratulations... lets see what cornell says..."
I admit, I applied to Cornell mostly to make them happy, so I could apply to other schools that I *really* wanted to go to. (Cornell is probably awesome, but also probably too cutthroat for me. I had enough of that going to Johns Hopkins for undergrad.)
I mean, that's another problem... my parents were so proud of me going to JHU, omg top bio program top research school omg and now they think that anything less than Cornell is "a step backwards", how can I possibly go from a more prestigious school to a less prestigious one? And also, they were so hoping I'd go into research as a career... Mom keeps asking me, am I *sure* I want to be a vet? Why not consider applying to some med schools along with all the vet schools? (hell no.) I guess she hopes that I'll transition from med school back to research... funny that an Asian parent would consider med school a last-resort, inferior sort of track. I'm guessing they want me to be a ridiculously successful professor like my dad, but... that's not what I want to do for a living.
Argh. I mean, I don't actually have that much to complain about - they're generally supportive (if somewhat baffled) most of the time, and they're going to be the ones footing the majority of my vet school bill (so I feel a bit guilty about "going against them", so to speak) and hey, I got into my top school! Just... aaaaaaaaaargh. Fly, ointment, etc.
Anyway, what I meant to say was... so I'm totally pumped up by the acceptance, and while responding to an e-mail from my dad I tack on a P.S. I got accepted to Tufts!!!
And the reply comes back, "Congratulations... lets see what cornell says..."
I admit, I applied to Cornell mostly to make them happy, so I could apply to other schools that I *really* wanted to go to. (Cornell is probably awesome, but also probably too cutthroat for me. I had enough of that going to Johns Hopkins for undergrad.)
I mean, that's another problem... my parents were so proud of me going to JHU, omg top bio program top research school omg and now they think that anything less than Cornell is "a step backwards", how can I possibly go from a more prestigious school to a less prestigious one? And also, they were so hoping I'd go into research as a career... Mom keeps asking me, am I *sure* I want to be a vet? Why not consider applying to some med schools along with all the vet schools? (hell no.) I guess she hopes that I'll transition from med school back to research... funny that an Asian parent would consider med school a last-resort, inferior sort of track. I'm guessing they want me to be a ridiculously successful professor like my dad, but... that's not what I want to do for a living.
Argh. I mean, I don't actually have that much to complain about - they're generally supportive (if somewhat baffled) most of the time, and they're going to be the ones footing the majority of my vet school bill (so I feel a bit guilty about "going against them", so to speak) and hey, I got into my top school! Just... aaaaaaaaaargh. Fly, ointment, etc.