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Yeah, definitely. Many people get into these positive reinforcement/punishment debates and think you're either pie in the sky not ever saying no to your dog because it might hurt its self esteem or on the other extreme, you're kicking and beating on your dog because it didn't sit that exact second. That's not how it works. It's a sliding scale.
If you were in clinics and you did something wrong that you had no idea that you weren't supposed to do it because you were just learning (just like puppies are just learning social skills and rules about being mouthy and biting), what's going to be more appropriate, the attending clinician screaming at you and throwing you down on the floor saying "Bad bad student!!! FAIL!!!" or an moderate "hey, that's not right, here's what you need to do, so let's not do that again."
Totally agree with your points.
...So I guess the take-home message is shut your mouth and do as you're told? Lol.