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I hate being poor and I hate our piece of #%@$ "insurance company", if you want to call them that. We pay however many hundred dollars a month, but when we really need something, do you think it is sufficiently covered? Hell no!!!!
My husband has had an auto immune disorder for most of his life but it is now worse than ever, so we finally went to a specialist to get him on some meds. We found some great funding for the medication where they give you a months free medication and 4800 bucks a year toward copays....Well guess what? Our copay is $1400 A MONTH...WTF??? We got all excited that he might be able to start living a normal life again, and our hopes just got crushed....😡
I really just want to throw my hands up and give up...between financial stress, mcat stress/application stress, school stress, recently losing other family members and facing a future where two more could be gone soon (not my husband), all the while not trying to stress out our 10 year old son, it all just adds up to be too much sometimes...
I know we all have our own battles, nobody has a perfect life, but sometimes I just get that feeling that I am getting a pretty large share of crap to deal with....
Oh well, at least the adcoms wont have to worry about whether I have "real life" experience...have to laugh about it somehow, or I'll cry🙁
/end pitty party
UPDATE May 8th
Not so much of a happy update unfortunately:
My husband has had to switch meds twice due to insurance issues, and just when he was starting to feel better, we find out his liver isn't doing so well on them. His liver enzymes are 5 times the normal upper limit. So now the meds are on hold while we dump a ton more money (not a lot of labs are covered for us on insurance) into just figuring out what is wrong with his liver. If he can't be on the meds, i just don't know what we'll do...things were really looking up, on now it seems like hopes are crushed AGAIN
Oh, and it looks like I'll be spending my year "off" while applying, living with my grandma as she has just been told she should never eat again do to chronic bowel obstructions. She needs help managing her TPN, as well as the insulin dependent diabetes it causes. I'm happy to help, and feel lucky that I will be out of school for what will likely be one of her last, if not the las years of her life.
My husband has had an auto immune disorder for most of his life but it is now worse than ever, so we finally went to a specialist to get him on some meds. We found some great funding for the medication where they give you a months free medication and 4800 bucks a year toward copays....Well guess what? Our copay is $1400 A MONTH...WTF??? We got all excited that he might be able to start living a normal life again, and our hopes just got crushed....😡
I really just want to throw my hands up and give up...between financial stress, mcat stress/application stress, school stress, recently losing other family members and facing a future where two more could be gone soon (not my husband), all the while not trying to stress out our 10 year old son, it all just adds up to be too much sometimes...
I know we all have our own battles, nobody has a perfect life, but sometimes I just get that feeling that I am getting a pretty large share of crap to deal with....
Oh well, at least the adcoms wont have to worry about whether I have "real life" experience...have to laugh about it somehow, or I'll cry🙁
/end pitty party
UPDATE May 8th
Not so much of a happy update unfortunately:
My husband has had to switch meds twice due to insurance issues, and just when he was starting to feel better, we find out his liver isn't doing so well on them. His liver enzymes are 5 times the normal upper limit. So now the meds are on hold while we dump a ton more money (not a lot of labs are covered for us on insurance) into just figuring out what is wrong with his liver. If he can't be on the meds, i just don't know what we'll do...things were really looking up, on now it seems like hopes are crushed AGAIN
Oh, and it looks like I'll be spending my year "off" while applying, living with my grandma as she has just been told she should never eat again do to chronic bowel obstructions. She needs help managing her TPN, as well as the insulin dependent diabetes it causes. I'm happy to help, and feel lucky that I will be out of school for what will likely be one of her last, if not the las years of her life.
. Kind of puts a perspective on going into medicine for the right reasons in the first place. I'm sorry to hear about your situation and hopefully everything will work out okay in the end. Until then, feel free to vent ... we will all support you here!!