I disagree with your findings. First of all, what is good for the country is not always good for the people. For example, taxes are good for the country to provide the financial backing for the government. However, as any family will tell you, more taxes are not good for the people.
Now, it is true that the Hippocratic Oath will not allow physicians to let people die. So, if you were shot in the chest, they would in all likelihood save your life. However, the problem with health care today doesn't involve emergency situations. Rather, there are non-insured patients using the emergency room for routine medical care because that is the only way they can receive care. There have even been patients seeking general dental care at ER's. You are not discussing the main issue with your point.
I won't discuss FOX News vs. MSNBC because it seems irrelevant to the entire discussion. The only thing I'll say is that I have seen instances on both stations where the commentators were clearly pushing political agendas. But I digress.
Isn't it true that the military members you know could possibly be politically inclined towards conservatism? Therefore, what they construe to be the President's attempt to destroy this country is instead their dislike for liberal policies. A liberal could attempt to make the same point when it comes to Republican policy.
I must also argue with your point that Obama is showing his "hostile disposition" towards the United States. Personally, I do not know many people who actually hate the United States. Rather, it is simply a matter of contrasting viewpoints. What someone may think is best for the country may not be viewed as ideally by someone with differing ideals. Do not make someone who simply disagrees with you to be an evil person. Argue issues, not morality.