asherah said:
I haven't acted like a wounded anything, nor have I put myself up against any kind of a wall. Some of us are fluent enough with language that we can convey our thoughts in text form with little effort. I'm flattered that you take it as me posting 'as if my life depended on it.'
You've made absolutely no sense, and all of your statements only proceeded to further blanket-statement and generalize not only 'all women,' but 'all men' and 'all physicians' as well, which is really sad.
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You want to feel like a victim, and you want to feel like you're being 'forced' into situations. Otherwise you have nothing to scream 'injusticy!! [sic]' about and rally against. That's your problem, no one elses. Let me guess, this is the one aspect of your life that you can actually control. You don't feel like you have control over anything else, so here's where you latch on and go all out balls-to-the-wall.
Sorry, no, you won't ever be forced to undergo anything in a GYN office. It's your choice whether or not you even go.
And, no, I don't feel in any way stepped on. As I said, just because I can post using semi-decent English as opposed to your migraine-inducing jargon doesn't mean I've expended any more effort than you did, or that I even really care. I don't.
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But that statement just proved that you are
not, in fact, willing to listen to anyone else's side on the matter. We actually take the time to respond because as people who went into this field to help others, it is unfathomable to us that some strange person on the internet who doesn't have a clue what she's talking about has decided that we're all rapists. It has nothing to do with feeling "stepped on." Again, I suspect that's what you want: to inflame everyone. It has to do with the fact that you really don't have a clue what you're talking about. No where near 'all women' feel raped by their doctors, and this isn't because they have 'no respect for themselves,' which is just insulting, arrogant, and presumptuous of you. You're not that smart/telepathic. Doctors (for the most part, 99% of the time) don't do what they do because they want to dominate you. Your vagina isn't that interesting; especially when they *have* to see 35+ a day. They're actually pretty nasty. People have given
many arguements to your points, you just glaze right over them and respond only to the stuff that you can continue repeating the same tired rhetoric to. You especially skip the ones where other women are posting saying they don't have any problem with male GYNs, to whom your only attempt at response is "they have no respect for themselves."
But, yeah, keep pretending like you know what you're talking about. Keep making fallacious blanket-statements about every group of people you can think of, and keep acting like you know exactly why everyone acts they way he or she does.
Keep being judgemental, and pretending like you can tell everyone on this board that he or she is a bad student/doctor because of the way he posts, even though no one here is posting as any station other than a person, and therefore has no obligation to be nice or caring toward you at all.
Keep pretending like you're a "victim,"
forced into going to these horrible visits and into undergoing these exams by these physicians of whom you believe you know exactly what they're thinking (they want to rape you) and why they do everything they do (when in reality, you have absolutely no clue).
Pretend all you want, because we're all aware of the reality.
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Hmm, I wonder what your responses would be were I to post a thread saying how disgusting I find it that females are allowed in urology, because it's obviously an attempt for them to feel like they have power over men, dominate them, and get to rape them; feeling all over the male genetalia. Afterall, that is what all women really want to do.
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Fortunately for the planet, nothing like this, and nothing like what you'd love so much to happen (female-only GYNs) will ever occur. Equality in the sexes; we've been working toward it for a long time, and society won't allow people like you to shove it back a hundred years.
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This post was the result of extreme boredom.
The poster doesn't give a rats ass what you do with your vagina.
Thank you, have a nice day.
My mother found out I was sexually active at age 19 and drug my little butt to the Dr. It never occured to me that I needed to see one. But she had me checked for STD's, pregnancy, and had me put on BC pills. Afterwards, I realized how extremely important this exam would be for me, no matter how awkward, for the rest of my life. Oh, and I discovered I had a tipped uterus. Common, and not a big deal I know, but still interesting to me.
