Oh my, WisNeuro...what a morbid cartoon. And MCParent, your video was hilarious & made a relevant point.
I won't be posting here anymore.
Oh, Shucks, why do you have to be so absolute? You should post here again with no hard feelings IMO.
JMS29, seems like you've been a member of this forum for some time, so you should be familiar with the flurry of responses not always being favorable to the OP. But we always make the point that if criticism cannot be received (whether mocking or otherwise), then you have to soul-search whether grad school/clinical training is for you because (as previously stated) you get plenty of it on the receiving-end throughout training. But it is constructive criticism, not malicious. These comments weren't malicious (maybe exaggerations to make a valid point, but not malicious – or why would they take the time out to reply?), merely addressing a goal which needs some fine-tuning.
Believe me, when Jon Voight publicly announced that his daughter, Angelina Jolie, needed psychiatric help...or when I heard Brittney Spears holed herself up in a bathroom with her young son, I fantasized about being that clinician who could
definitely treat those individuals in an empathic, effective way and could help instill hope when all was lost. But did you ever read in the tabloids that they were being treated by CheetahGirl, PhD (soon to be ABD)? Hell no! A girl could dream, right?
My goals have changed, and unless Angelina or Brittney is a U.S. Military Service Veteran (as I am currently on internship at a VAMC), I really have no interest in treating them now. Beginning-goals and end-goals can be quite disparate. This is why I encouraged you to hold your idea in the back of your mind (or you said,
your heart) and see where the chips may fall...after you've been through training and get a more realistic dose of what is and is not attainable (with your current/future resources).
Good luck!
