I didn't say that you had to have $500k saved up to live well. I said that if you graduated as a pharmacist 15 years ago and lived modestly and had zero debt you would should have about $500k saved up (this includes retirement which is savings) . If your friend paid off $180k of loans in 3 years then you are just proving my point.
Direct quote "Working retail isn't that bad if you came out of school with little to no debt. You should have >500k (graduating 15 years ago) saved up at this point living a modest/above modest lifestyle."
Second, you said she gets to splurge on her favorite things and has a comfortable home. I probably took favorite things liberally (as far as splurging on favorite things) as clearly you can buy nice clothes and dinner on a pharmacists salary (although not every night lol). When I think of a comfortable home I'm thinking 250k and that is for a relatively low cost of living area outside a major city in the southeast. Our definitions probably vary on that. To graduate and pay off 180k over 3 years (if the balance started at 180k) would take a payment of $5520.92 cents a month. This is assuming a 3 year pay off of a starting balance of 180k with a 6.55% interest rate (which is accurate I graduated in 2013 and the govt grad rate was 6.8% with a .25% reduction for auto payments. Lets say the total she paid was 180k which means that's what she paid with interest, the monthly payment is $5000.
You do realize that is literally your ~85% of your paycheck (except in California apparently but again they have higher state taxes so that may make up for pay difference and a comfortable house in any city around there isn't 250k) after taxes. So unless someone else is paying the mortgage/rent, food, insurance, cell phone etc bill it would be literally impossible to live off $1000 a month when the other $5-5500 is going to your student loan. It would take severe discipline and other factors to pay off 180k in three years, other factors as in you live at home/have a spouse paying most of your expenses.
I whole heartedly agree with your last two sentences. I'm not trying to be mean, I am being realistic and giving a realistic view of the pharmacy profession. Graduating 180k in loans is a huge burden on someone making 110-120k starting out (if you get 40 hours a week) which is the typically starting salary with 2% raises yearly. You will have a hard time getting a car (most need to replace there's and want something decent), saving up a downpayment for a home (wouldn't recommend putting 3% down), and saving for retirement early in your career (arguably the most important time) with a 180k collar dragging you down.
Your take home pay on 120k (~$58 an hour) for a single person in Georgia with no retirement, insurance, etc coming out of your paycheck is $3050.94 every 2 weeks according to paycheck city. Obviously these numbers will vary a little depending on your variable factors but is a good estimate and overshoots by a little due to insurance etc typically coming out of your check, plus the 401k contribution of which you should at least be doing the match which is 5% at CVS.