P.S. Ramsestiger: can i email you? You seem like youve been through a lot and have lots of knowledge abt these things. Are you desi?
As I said earlier, e-mail me if you have any questions for me (
[email protected] ). Yes, I'm a desi (that's Asian Indian for those who aren't in the know)!
My advice was intended for someone who had already made some of the mistakes that I did. But if you haven't, I'll offer some additional advice for you:
1. Don't go into a lull and forget why you're in college in the first place. After my sophomore year, I had a med. school application suitable for Harvard Medical School. I had taken lots of honors level classes at a school with a solid reputation like UNC, and I had aced almost all of my premedical requirements. I was involved in campus activities, and I had done all of the "premed. activities." Then, I entered junior year and my attention suddenly shifted away from academics because I "knew" that I would be accepted into almost any med. school. I started doing lots of traditional "college activities," and my grades started dropping. Of course, have fun in life, but try not to go overboard - don't eliminate girlies, alcohol, and other such EVILS (joking!), but try to exercise self-control.
2. Semper paratus - Always be prepared. I still haven't studied for any test, written any paper, or done any preparation for an evaluation other than the MCAT until the night before (that's not a great strategy for everyone, but I used to get away with it a lot until senior level science courses). If I had to do it all over again, I probably still would be a procrastinator (with a little more effort this time), but that really hurt me a lot when I started being a superslacker my senior year. Biochemistry, physical chemistry, and a few other "serious" science courses are not jokes - I found out the hard way when I only studied about 2-3 hours before the tests in those classes my senior year. Boy, my science gpa went from 3.85 to 3.35 faster than I could have ever imagined with a couple of Cs and B-'s.
3. Prepare for the MCAT. I had deluded myself into thinking that I was "naturally smart." I was good friends with students at UNC who scored about 10 points higher than me on the MCAT and went on to Stanford, Columbia and other top notch schools for med. I had a higher SAT, better college grades the first two years, and I often thought that I was smarter than each of them. In the end, your MCAT score is really more important than anything else when you're applying to medical school. Most of the students that do well on it (especially in the sciences) aren't natural geniuses - they literally study for it a lot, and take lots of practice tests. I have always been and always will be proud of everything I accomplish, but some others might regret not putting forth a more solid effort.
4. Only marginally involve yourself with extracurricular activities that you think might get you into med. school. Honestly, your numbers are more important than anything else. If you really want to go to medical school, study a few hours every day so you have the highest gpa and MCAT score possible. Everything else in your application is just background noise. If you don't have the right numbers, you won't be able to say anything or do anything the "right way." If your numbers are great, you won't be able to say anything or do anything the "wrong way." I think you catch my drift.
Ultimately, things seem to be working out for me, but the transition to graduate life could have been smoother if I had been more careful. I have made mistakes and I've learned from them - I fully intend to take advantage of the opportunities I have in front of me in medical school. And again, I am not one of those people that regrets things for extended periods of time. I have a unique perspective, and I really don't have any significant regrets in life - I hope it stays that way!