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I love how you showed up a few months ago preaching about what a good doctor is, then come here now wondering where some racist ******** went. Again, do you have anything, anything at all, to do with anesthesiology?

DreamMachine, why do I get on your nerves (I kinda like that :laugh:) Now that I have you as a friend, I have a lot to do with anesthesiology, how about it? 😀
I am NOT going to discuss Eta's business and defend her, but I believe that a nice doctors (I cannot say good doctors because DreamMachine gets offended and I do not know what he will do next.. :slap:) look at the person as a whole. I understand we look at all the systems' function together, but the psych has a lot of effect on all the system put together.
I will end by saying thank you for the clarification regarding my friend. Eta has nothing against blacks since her very close people to her are black.
I love you forum, and I will be reading all the time 😍 especially for my friend DreamMachine 😍
 
Blah blah blah...instead of preaching tolerance to me and others (as in the past), try it on your racist friend first.
Where did you get that she's a racist?
please copy and paste for me - send me also a P.O. box - send you the best porn - not Mexican (because is racist...:laugh:) and also not on my taste....
2win
 
Please let me tell you how I see Eta...

It turned out that she is living a crisis that I wish none of you will live or have to deal with ever. Under all these strong opinions that she had, there was a human being who is hurting bad and wanted support. But, because she does not come out in a sad, gentle girlie style, every one thinks she is ready to fight and attacks her.

I do not know what is meant by KKK because Eta and I are immigrants and actually can be targeted by the KKK, unless you meant something else.
Thank you for taking the time to read my entry.

If Eta actually exists (and I have serious doubts that she does due to an inability to verify some of her statements about her history and her future plans) she strikes me as a emotionally unstable person who likely suffers from a personality disorder. It would not surprise me to hear that she lives from crisis to crisis, constantly looking for support, but pushing it away when she finds it. I hope that I am wrong and she makes a great resident for whichever Seattle program she matched into.

I sent you a link via PM to the thread that has lead to accusations of racism/ KKK against Eta. Make of it what you will, but I could not find the facetiousness in it. I have no idea if this is what got her banned, but I seriously doubt it is.

- pod
 
I can't understand why Lee allows some of the inane postings in the "unmoderated" part of the forums. Posters here are, in theory, professionals or preprofessionals and much of what is posted there for public consumption does no honor to the medical profession. I never read any of it until recently. It is a wasteland and probably a liability to the forum. When that spills over into the moderated parts of the forum, frequented by more mature and civilized members, you are asking for big trouble. Appropriately. You reap what you sow, it was only a matter of time. As for the lack of civility and hostility here, PGG was right on the money. Some carry grudges to the grave, reading personal attacks into any criticism, can't admit when they are wrong and live to argue.
 
I will end by saying thank you for the clarification regarding my friend. Eta has nothing against blacks since her very close people to her are black.
I love you forum, and I will be reading all the time 😍 especially for my friend DreamMachine 😍

No you're starting to sound just like Eta.
 
No you're starting to sound just like Eta.

Thank you for saying that. But I am NOT lying, Eta's son is black because her ex is black, and many family members are black. She is really hurt by them, and she lost her son.. ...and that is why she used generalization in her statements. That is why what she wrote made sense to me. The issue hit a very sensitive area in her life.

Talking about being civil mature way of communication, from the first time I wrote in a forum, Mr. DreamMachine has been very civil as you can see in his posts... but you know, I will let it go because I am civil and I will stay like that.
 
Thank you for saying that. But I am NOT lying, Eta's son is black because her ex is black, and many family members are black. She is really hurt by them, and she lost her son.. ...and that is why she used generalization in her statements. That is why what she wrote made sense to me. The issue hit a very sensitive area in her life.

Talking about being civil mature way of communication, from the first time I wrote in a forum, Mr. DreamMachine has been very civil as you can see in his posts... but you know, I will let it go because I am civil and I will stay like that.

No one here cares why she behaved the way that she did. She was obnoxious and got banned. Yo don't get banned for being an idiot without warnings. I'm sure she thought that she was "too big to fail". Let it go.
 
Rmb,

Eta confided things to me about her life that - even in the MIDST of the worst of it all, (check the Ketamine thread) I would never reveal (or use against her). Confided why she lied about things on this board, created certain fictions etc. She knew a bit about my life, that I had children, certainly, NOTHING MORE. Lemme set the record straight: she NEVER, ever, mentioned having a kid, losing a child, or having an ex-husband!

Rather, she confided why she fed the stuff to people here that she did. When she told me her secrets, I thought, ok, whatever, weird. Then she'd post something about the lie that was so well thought out, so well conceived, so FICTIONAL that it was SCARY.
Shortly after that, she turned on me, in the middle of a Copro fight, from black to white. Out of the blue. So, I stepped away from her multiple emails asking for friendship after she'd try and mutilate poor little pre-med me about the chirality of Ketamine for goddsakes. She would tell me something and then would POST THE EXACT OPPOSITE, in a fabricated fictional way, 10 mins later on a thread. I decided then, not to reveal anything about myself to her. Thank goodness I never did.

I think Periopdoc got it straight with his diagnosis. I'll not reveal what she told me, or her fabrications, but she's an admitted liar/con artist/insert your word. So, I'd stop feeding the board stuff that defends this character. I still have the emails. I think. That I never deleted. I stuck up for you when you were going through some crap here, rmb, way back, because I like to give people a HUGE benefit of the doubt, I'm a genuine person. Eta was not.

I've stayed quiet about Eta since it all went down. PMs. Threads. Period. I don't need to take a swipe after all that stuff that went down. Just understand: I have no reason to lie about her now. Think about it. This should close the case on her altogether. Once and for all.

D712
 
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Rmb,

Eta confided things to me about her life that - even in the MIDST of the worst of it all, (check the Ketamine thread) I would never reveal (or use against her). Confided why she lied about things on this board, created certain fictions etc. She knew a bit about my life, that I had children, certainly, NOTHING MORE. Lemme set the record straight: she NEVER, ever, mentioned having a kid, losing a child, or having an ex-husband!

Rather, she confided why she fed the stuff to people here that she did. When she told me her secrets, I thought, ok, whatever, weird. Then she'd post something about the lie that was so well thought out, so well conceived, so FICTIONAL that it was SCARY.
Shortly after that, she turned on me, in the middle of a Copro fight, from black to white. Out of the blue. So, I stepped away from her multiple emails asking for friendship after she'd try and mutilate poor little pre-med me about the chirality of Ketamine for goddsakes. She would tell me something and then would POST THE EXACT OPPOSITE, in a fabricated fictional way, 10 mins later on a thread. I decided then, not to reveal anything about myself to her. Thank goodness I never did.

I think Periopdoc got it straight with his diagnosis. I'll not reveal what she told me, or her fabrications, but she's an admitted liar/con artist/insert your word. So, I'd stop feeding the board stuff that defends this character. I still have the emails. I think. That I never deleted. I stuck up for you when you were going through some crap here, rmb, way back, because I like to give people a HUGE benefit of the doubt, I'm a genuine person. Eta was not.

I've stayed quiet about Eta since it all went down. PMs. Threads. Period. I don't need to take a swipe after all that stuff that went down. Just understand: I have no reason to lie about her now. Think about it. This should close the case on her altogether. Once and for all.

D712

The stuff that goes on behind the scenes on this forum boggles my freakin' mind, man. 😱

BTW, is Eta the same person as PerolaNegra? She was a poster who used to hang around here, claimed to be interested in becoming an AA....posted in all the same forums as Eta and had kind of a similar fiery reaction to anyone who disagreed with her or called her out on anything. I always suspected them of being the same troll, but maybe it's just a bitchy female thing that comes through the intarwebs universally.
 
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Rmb,

Eta confided things to me about her life that - even in the MIDST of the worst of it all, (check the Ketamine thread) I would never reveal (or use against her). Confided why she lied about things on this board, created certain fictions etc. She knew a bit about my life, that I had children, certainly, NOTHING MORE. Lemme set the record straight: she NEVER, ever, mentioned having a kid, losing a child, or having an ex-husband!

Rather, she confided why she fed the stuff to people here that she did. When she told me her secrets, I thought, ok, whatever, weird. Then she'd post something about the lie that was so well thought out, so well conceived, so FICTIONAL that it was SCARY.
Shortly after that, she turned on me, in the middle of a Copro fight, from black to white. Out of the blue. So, I stepped away from her multiple emails asking for friendship after she'd try and mutilate poor little pre-med me about the chirality of Ketamine for goddsakes. She would tell me something and then would POST THE EXACT OPPOSITE, in a fabricated fictional way, 10 mins later on a thread. I decided then, not to reveal anything about myself to her. Thank goodness I never did.

I think Periopdoc got it straight with his diagnosis. I'll not reveal what she told me, or her fabrications, but she's an admitted liar/con artist/insert your word. So, I'd stop feeding the board stuff that defends this character. I still have the emails. I think. That I never deleted. I stuck up for you when you were going through some crap here, rmb, way back, because I like to give people a HUGE benefit of the doubt, I'm a genuine person. Eta was not.

I've stayed quiet about Eta since it all went down. PMs. Threads. Period. I don't need to take a swipe after all that stuff that went down. Just understand: I have no reason to lie about her now. Think about it. This should close the case on her altogether. Once and for all.

D712
I know that you stood up for me and you are/ and still is a great
person :luck:

As for the rest of what you said ....I am speechless🙁
Thanks for your clarification.:cry:
 
Just as a general aside, I find it interesting that people seem to put more credence behind information shared via PM. It's like, "Oh, they're taking the time to share info only with me, this must be the truth!" when in reality, it's just another part of the manipulation.

I'm not suggesting people turn into heartless bastards, but it's good every once in awhile to remember that there are some manipulative and/or psychologically unbalanced people out there, and the interwebs is prime feeding ground for them. Sometimes a little healthy skepticism goes a long way.
 
Thank you for saying that. But I am NOT lying, Eta's son is black because her ex is black, and many family members are black. She is really hurt by them, and she lost her son..

If she told you this in confidence privately and never posted it publicly, I don't think she wanted you to post it on the world wide web for her.
 
I'm pretty sure she/he/it got banned because she was sporting her KKK club membership status in the signature line and then proceeded to post in the moderated sections of SDN (which really was unnecessary since the signature portion is not static). This person was/is a crazy narcissistic troll on some weird mission to illustrate "groupthink" (when she mentioned this, everything made sense) and somebody with a lot of time on their hands.

By the way, she is not gone. People like this don't just leave - they manifest over and over again with the same old shtick.

I just wonder.. was it worth it? Was it really really worth it? 😕






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Seriously, did you really pay SDN $49 for a gold membership and then essentially beg the moderators to kick you off?

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Just as a general aside, I find it interesting that people seem to put more credence behind information shared via PM. It's like, "Oh, they're taking the time to share info only with me, this must be the truth!" when in reality, it's just another part of the manipulation.

I'm not suggesting people turn into heartless bastards, but it's good every once in awhile to remember that there are some manipulative and/or psychologically unbalanced people out there, and the interwebs is prime feeding ground for them. Sometimes a little healthy skepticism goes a long way.

WLG,

I don't put extra weight to it, as a side note. I'm just sayin she told me X, then posted Y on the web. And explained why she was saying Y. EITHER WAY, it's F-ed. Either lying to me, or the thread. Wacko Jacko time.

D712
 
Said the MS4 with 6 posts to the tenured attending. You're a perfect case in point, if you ask me.

in here everyone is equal bitch
 
Did a quick search...

And besides trolling, exactly what gets you banned here (i guess the obvious, racism and such)

I think it was in someones signature that asking about prestige gets you banned too? I was like whoa, I don't really post much out of the Pre-Med stuff (like WAMC, etc) but just wanted to check, in case some one really riles me up on this forum ;D jkjk

I think these forums are great (esp for advice) I have yet to encounter any of these wars yet though.. maybe thats a good thing
 
And besides trolling, exactly what gets you banned here (i guess the obvious, racism and such)

Having a screen name like HotAsianChick... and subsequently/possibly turning out to be neither hot... Asian... or a chick...
 
Having a screen name like HotAsianChick... and subsequently/possibly turning out to be neither hot... Asian... or a chick...


I really should get that sn changed (I've just had it from the 6th grade --> clearly my maturity back then is not what it is now) but I've had the sn for so long, I'm so used to just using it for anything informal-ish.

Jay K --> I am Asian and I am a Chick. Hot --> depends on who you ask 😀

racerx --> I don't think my bf would appreciate me uploading pics of myself onto the internet (lol) nor do I think that's a good idea...
 
racerx --> I don't think my bf would appreciate me uploading pics of myself onto the internet (lol) nor do I think that's a good idea...

Anything below the neck would do just fine AND you get to maintain your anonymity AND your bf won't be upset. It's win-win-win.
 
Anything below the neck would do just fine AND you get to maintain your anonymity AND your bf won't be upset. It's win-win-win.

lol very nice idea ;D

i wouldn't want to get banned for indecency though 😀
 
Hushed aside to Dream: (you're ALMOST there DM, just a little more...)

D712
 
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