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This is why I had 8 in my committee letter packet: if one is lukewarm, others can make up for itI gather that this bad LOR was more than just damning with faint praise.
This is why I had 8 in my committee letter packet: if one is lukewarm, others can make up for itI gather that this bad LOR was more than just damning with faint praise.
Premed committees are a mystery to me.This is why I had 8 in my committee letter packet: if one is lukewarm, others can make up for it
1. I really don’t know and tend to doubt it. My alma mater has good med school placement but I doubt it’s because of this. Usually if a professor would write a bad letter, they just decline. To be safe, I’d recommend meeting with each beforehand.Premed committees are a mystery to me.
1. Do such committees explicitly or impliedly decline to include bad LORs in the package sent to medical schools? Do they tell applicants of bad apple LORs?
2. How do such committees manage to keep straight all the particular requirements about the number and composition of LORs required by each medical school for all the premeds applying from their college?
You should always ask to see the letters. If someone says no, I simply move on to another person. Too much at stake in life for someone else to decide your fate. It's totally BS.This is why I had 8 in my committee letter packet: if one is lukewarm, others can make up for it
I find that examples from the far past often show how much we've changed rather than showing possibilities. This was Kennedy's application Harvard, which was accepted as well.
Can I ask why you felt you botched nyu?LM 82. , Applied broadly and turned in all my secondaries in mid to late July - received 3 II July/early august from NYU, Yale, Jefferson. Since then, it’s been down hill, my last II was 2 months ago, and Ive just gotten holds (2) and Rs (4, 3 in the span of the last week lol).
My concern, based on the consensus here on here, is that schools tend to review high stat applicants first. So are these the only ones I should look forward to? I’m especially worried since I feel like I megabotched my shot at NYU recently.
I find that examples from the far past often show how much we've changed rather than showing possibilities. This was Kennedy's application Harvard, which was accepted as well.
The reasons that I have for wishing to go to Harvard are several. I feel that Harvard can give me a better background and a better liberal education than any other university. I have always wanted to go there, as I have felt that it is not just another college, but is a university with something definite to offer. Then too, I would like to go to the same college as my father. To be a "Harvard man" is an enviable distinction, and one that I sincerely hope I shall attain.
April 23, 1935
John F. Kennedy
Mardi Gras.... 3/1/2022. Check the Tulane University academic calendar if you don't know what day it falls on in future cycles.What is the thanksgiving equivalent for acceptances?
Tbh his application sums up why anyone wants to go to Harvard perfectly. Legacy and wealth inequality are still issues today, but the "tell me your story in 700 words" competition we have today is absolutely ridiculous too. Kids are literally competing to be the most unique caricature of a person possible and have the most "hardship"/be the most marginalized.How many Benjamins accompanied JFK’s terse application?
This is why I have always thought that letters of recommendation are just as if not more important than essays. Stellar LORs speak more to somebody’s character and abilities than an essayTbh his application sums up why anyone wants to go to Harvard perfectly. Legacy and wealth inequality are still issues today, but the "tell me your story in 700 words" competition we have today is absolutely ridiculous too. Kids are literally competing to be the most unique caricature of a person possible and have the most "hardship"/be the most marginalized.
This advice is so bad it's almost malicious. Are you aware that letters are checked to see if the letter was confidential or not not (ie, the student did not waive a right to confidentiality)?You should always ask to see the letters. If someone says no, I simply move on to another person. Too much at stake in life for someone else to decide your fate. It's totally BS.
That's just your own opinion.This advice is so bad it's almost malicious. Are you aware that letters are checked to see if the letter was confidential or not not (ie, the student did not waive a right to confidentiality)?
If not waived, that telegraphs that the sender was possibly inhibited from being honest about the application.
Big red flag there.
In life, you will find that lots of people will be determining your fate.
To my understanding, that's not entirely accurate. I've always been a little confused by this, so please clarify if you can.This advice is so bad it's almost malicious. Are you aware that letters are checked to see if the letter was confidential or not not (ie, the student did not waive a right to confidentiality)?
If not waived, that telegraphs that the sender was possibly inhibited from being honest about the application.
Big red flag there.
In life, you will find that lots of people will be determining your fate.
Agreed lmao...this LoR discussion is a circus. Most are completely average or just say you're a decent student and I doubt these truly 'stellar' LoRs happen enough to be a topic of discussion in the first place.Do not ask your letter writers to show you their letter. That’s just weird and rude and just…why?
1) pick professor that you KNOW likes you
2) “would you be willing to write me a supportive letter of recommendation for medical school?” “Yes”
3) trust that one of your favorite professors isn’t malicious, this is easier if you know your conduct in college and beyond has been squeaky clean
4) lots of exams and studying and wards
5) become doctor
I definitely can't attest to how often this is the case, but at several of my interviews, my interviewers made specific note how glowing and strong my rec letters were. One even noted that they were among the strongest she has seen, and served as great attestations to my ability or character or something (I forget exactly).Agreed lmao...this LoR discussion is a circus. Most are completely average or just say you're a decent student and I doubt these truly 'stellar' LoRs happen enough to be a topic of discussion in the first place.
One of my LoR writers (science prof) offered to write me a letter and let me read it. Even though he did both of these things, the letter amounted to a paragraph about "this person was top of the class;" "this person is nice and cares about others success (TAing related);" "this person cares about the material (was physio so related to medicine) and made an effort to learn outside of class;" "this persons activities in _____ EC stands reflects their __ traits bla bla;" "this person will make a fine doctor and I recommend them with utmost confidence"
Like what even more can be said? Should I have edited a paragraph about massive muscles and attractive frame, and the good old "this is the best student I have ever seen in my life?" Hahaha. I can't imagine letters stray too far away from this format, unless you are asking someone who you either don't know, didn't TA or talk to, or performed poorly in their class.
I've had 2 interviews where my letters came up and both were related to my PI and they said they liked the way my PI described my commitment to research (essentially apparently my PI said I came to lab late nights a lot...).
Most committee letters have that as well for med school.I remember that undergrad recs actually have a section in which writer marks if a student is one of the best that they have ever had. Also true for law school recs.
Imagine that this is incredibly difficult to get at schools like Deerfield, SPS, Hotchkiss etc. but I’m a firm believer that letters of recs can push an applicant past the finish line. In a few of the interviews that I didn’t expect to get, interviewer specifically brought up my LoRs
So they are definitely very important
Most committee letters have that as well for med school.
Sure but even in this case is it causal, in any sense? Like what does "best" entail? Highest marks? Best person (by what metrics?)? Most of that is just reflected on your app already be it from stats, experiences, etc.. I have heard that committees rank, but then again it begs the question of how, why, and if it even matters. Even from our scatterplot I see people with the 3 A's at T20s across the board and I see multiple R's (as in no A's at all) in the high stat quadrant (520+; 3.9+).I remember that undergrad recs actually have a section in which writer marks if a student is one of the best that they have ever had. Also true for law school recs.
Imagine that this is incredibly difficult to get at schools like Deerfield, SPS, Hotchkiss etc. but I’m a firm believer that letters of recs can push an applicant past the finish line. In a few of the interviews that I didn’t expect to get, interviewer specifically brought up my LoRs
So they are definitely very important
So you're saying that your research was the draw for your app?Sure but even in this case is it causal, in any sense? Like what does "best" entail? Highest marks? Best person (by what metrics?)? Most of that is just reflected on your app already be it from stats, experiences, etc.. I have heard that committees rank, but then again it begs the question of how, why, and if it even matters. Even from our scatterplot I see people with the 3 A's at T20s across the board and I see multiple R's (as in no A's at all) in the high stat quadrant (520+; 3.9+).
Also it probably highly depends on the school. This is isn't even going to be a joke but at my T10 undergrad I actually personally know over 20 people who got a LoR from the same non-science professor (premed requirement—I assume far more people actually do per year though); the committee also writes everyone a letter; yet most people get II's and A's at T10s as long as they have the stats and a good application. Are they all "best student?" Hell no.
Now if you're from a small school that doesn't really have stellar premeds (or premeds at all) and happen to be a literal genius once a year student? Sure maybe then it matters.
Y'all are making it sound like someone with a average application is going to get in because their math professor said they were the best student. No lol. You have glowing recs and the like because you ARE a good applicant.
As for mentioning it in interviews I doubt it means anything, probably just a formality or making conversation. In my case they just used it as a transition to talk about my research.
They're very important in that a bad one will sink you. Most (like 90%) are blather about you always came to class, was in the top 10%, asked good questions...blah blah blah.Imagine that this is incredibly difficult to get at schools like Deerfield, SPS, Hotchkiss etc. but I’m a firm believer that letters of recs can push an applicant past the finish line. In a few of the interviews that I didn’t expect to get, interviewer specifically brought up my LoRs
So they are definitely very important
Me? No. I had a decent app all around and a friendly relationship with my PI of 4 years. I'm also probably considered URM (wasn't sure I would be, but there is no way I'm not based on current cycle).So you're saying that your research was the draw for your app?
Can't speak to AMCAS format, but here what AACOMAS has and what we see:To my understanding, that's not entirely accurate. I've always been a little confused by this, so please clarify if you can.
When you submit your LORs, you merely choose whether to waive your LEGAL RIGHT to view them, not your ability to. In other words, your recommender can voluntarily choose to let you see your own LORs.
Am I understanding incorrectly? I don't see how your waiver can be construed as a promise to never view LORs, given its specific language. Yet, many people seem to believe exactly that, and I see this sentiment especially commonly on r/premed (but also SDN), where multiple times questions such as "My recommender emailed me my LoR and asked for my thoughts, do I have to toss it?" are asked.
I think the ranking may matter less at your T10 undergrad because it's T10... therefore even the people deemed average by that committee are average among exceptional people (generally speaking).Sure but even in this case is it causal, in any sense? Like what does "best" entail? Highest marks? Best person (by what metrics?)? Most of that is just reflected on your app already be it from stats, experiences, etc.. I have heard that committees rank, but then again it begs the question of how, why, and if it even matters. Even from our scatterplot I see people with the 3 A's at T20s across the board and I see multiple R's (as in no A's at all) in the high stat quadrant (520+; 3.9+).
Also it probably highly depends on the school. This is isn't even going to be a joke but at my T10 undergrad I actually personally know over 20 people who got a LoR from the same non-science professor (premed requirement—I assume far more people actually do per year though); the committee also writes everyone a letter; yet most people get II's and A's at T10s as long as they have the stats and a good application. Are they all "best student?" Hell no.
Now if you're from a small school that doesn't really have stellar premeds (or premeds at all) and happen to be a literal genius once a year student? Sure maybe then it matters.
Y'all are making it sound like someone with a average application is going to get in because their math professor said they were the best student. No lol. You have glowing recs and the like because you ARE a good applicant.
As for mentioning it in interviews I doubt it means anything, probably just a formality or making conversation. In my case they just used it as a transition to talk about my research.
That essentially amounts to the same thing. Waiving your RIGHT to access does not mean you waive your ABILITY to access, right? You're just saying you have no legal right to view it, not guaranteeing that you will specifically avoid looking at it even if offered.Can't speak to AMCAS format, but here what AACOMAS has and what we see:
"I waive my right of access to this evaluation: YES"
You are totally correct. In other words, the right you waive or not is really about whether you can view the letter if you demand to do so. However, if you waive the right and demand to see the letter, the writer or whoever is in possession of the letter can decide on their own whether to grant you the access. The ball is in their court if you waive the right.To my understanding, that's not entirely accurate. I've always been a little confused by this, so please clarify if you can.
When you submit your LORs, you merely choose whether to waive your LEGAL RIGHT to view them, not your ability to. In other words, your recommender can voluntarily choose to let you see your own LORs.
Am I understanding incorrectly? I don't see how your waiver can be construed as a promise to never view LORs, given its specific language. Yet, many people seem to believe exactly that, and I see this sentiment especially commonly on r/premed (but also SDN), where multiple times questions such as "My recommender emailed me my LoR and asked for my thoughts, do I have to toss it?" are asked.
You waive your right, but you can still be given the access. Just not as your right. Get that? A right is something to which one has a just claim, per MW. Also note that waive is in the present tense, which means what happened before this waiver was answered is irrelevant.Can't speak to AMCAS format, but here what AACOMAS has and what we see:
"I waive my right of access to this evaluation: YES"
Is that what UG faculty are doing now? Jeeze, how times have slipped.That essentially amounts to the same thing. Waiving your RIGHT to access does not mean you waive your ABILITY to access, right? You're just saying you have no legal right to view it, not guaranteeing that you will specifically avoid looking at it even if offered.
I do not know a single person that has not seen at least one of their LORs (all purely voluntary, provided by the LoR writer without request).
To quote from residency applicants a few years ago on SDN: The way I see it is this, I have waived my "right" to see the letter, does not mean "I have not seen this letter", it just means I acknowledge that I have no inherent right to view it. There is nothing illegal or unethical about this. But the letter writer is free to refuse. If they refuse, then you need to decide whether you'll use the letter anyway, or not.
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Question on waving right to view LOR
First, is it better to waive your right or not waive your right and why? Second, can programs you apply to see if you did not waive your right to view the LOR? Third, if you do not waive your right to view it, will you be able to see the LOR on ERAS?forums.studentdoctor.net
haha yup. Tbh, many students have had least one LoR writer even ask them to write their own letter.Is that what UG faculty are doing now? Jeeze, how times have slipped.
Well, all I can say is that our MS and medical students do not get the right to look at letters, and in all the time I've been here, not one of the many people I've written LORs for have asked to see a LOR.
I have never asked to see a LOR either. One of my letter writers gave me a copy and asked me to look over it to see if there were any changes he should make. I'm kind of glad he did because he spelled my name wrong...Is that what UG faculty are doing now? Jeeze, how times have slipped.
Well, all I can say is that our MS and medical students do not get the right to look at letters, and in all the time I've been here, not one of the many people I've written LORs for have asked to see a LOR.
Yep, one of my letter writers wanted me to write a draft letter. I was like "Uhhhh I don't know how to write a letter of recommendation....."haha yup. Tbh, many students have had least one LoR writer even ask them to write their own letter.
Yeah, I know that lazy faculty do that.haha yup. Tbh, many students have had least one LoR writer even ask them to write their own letter.
Pretty much only in this country we need some BS like LOR’s. It’s the vestige of colonialism and slavery.Yeah, I know that lazy faculty do that.
Yes it is also pretty hard for people who need to work full time rather than doing a SMP or something to get recommendations. I was going to apply to JD or PhD programs just in case but realized that it would be impossible to get LORs without going back to school since most ppl I could ask already wrote them for med schoolPretty much only in this country we need some BS like LOR’s. It’s the vestige of colonialism and slavery.
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Letters of recommendation reaffirm entrenched systems of bias and exclusion (opinion)
The practice reaffirms entrenched systems of inequity and bias, Michelle Iwen argues.www.insidehighered.com
You could ask them to write one for law school or PhD. No one gives a damn. They just have to change the word medical school to other things.Yes it is also pretty hard for people who need to work full time rather than doing a SMP or something to get recommendations. I was going to apply to JD or PhD programs just in case but realized that it would be impossible to get LORs without going back to school since most ppl I could ask already wrote them for med school
True but I haven’t talked to some of them in like 3 or 4 years. Seems like a cringe email to have to sendYou could ask them to write one for law school or PhD. No one gives a damn. They just have to change the word medical school to other things.
Nah, people just do it. One of my letters came from a prof who I haven’t seen for over a decade. All you have to do is ask. Smart people know this is just a game.True but I haven’t talked to some of them in like 3 or 4 years. Seems like a cringe email to have to send
Things have changed somewhat, some schools and faculty members will let their students read their MSPE/LORs.Is that what UG faculty are doing now? Jeeze, how times have slipped.
Well, all I can say is that our MS and medical students do not get the right to look at letters, and in all the time I've been here, not one of the many people I've written LORs for have asked to see a LOR.