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In fact, my jerk ex was done at 24, graduated before NY passed its residency law, and has been working ever since.
getting a masters in engineering or business and making money while also having free time? are you that short sighted where you truly think you either a) piss away your 20s partying b) work super duper hard in a medical program
the false dichotomies are insane
In fact, my jerk ex was done at 24, graduated before NY passed its residency law, and has been working ever since.
Most of those engineers probably had less free time than premeds in college, and a MBA usually comes with work experience i.e. being the low man on the totem poll for several years first.
The point I was trying to make was that very rarely do people just go straight from undergrad into the workforce. Your ex started early but he still had 4 years of school post bac.
careers other than MD that come to mind with good pay
DDS/DMD
accounting (after a 4-5 year slaving, move to private and make good money)
engineering (petroleum is probably taking a hit with all the oil prices and influx of grads moving in)
actuary (exams are incredibly tough)
*two things: some of these careers require you to be in a pricey city which might irritate some and reduce the amount of savings one would like to have, plus good pay is subjective considering some posters had mommy and daddy do all the ass-wiping for them.
careers other than MD that come to mind with good pay
DDS/DMD
accounting (after a 4-5 year slaving, move to private and make good money)
engineering (petroleum is probably taking a hit with all the oil prices and influx of grads moving in)
actuary (exams are incredibly tough)
*two things: some of these careers require you to be in a pricey city which might irritate some and reduce the amount of savings one would like to have, plus good pay is subjective considering some posters had mommy and daddy do all the ass-wiping for them.
I wasnt aware the gestapo existed in SDN.
Contrast that with medicine which you are free to live pretty much wherever (and the "cheapest" places pay more money). Plus you need extra schooling usually for the accounting, DDS/DMD, and actuary.
HAY. I made it all on my own!
fellow hard working dentist, I did too. But I was told I was the only one. ALL LIES.
not to mention your definition of fun is drinking/doing drugs, backpacking across europe and going " yolo style"
god forbid just watching a movie with friends, going out to dinner, cooking a nice meal or anything like that
not to mention your definition of fun is drinking/doing drugs, backpacking across europe and going " yolo style"
god forbid just watching a movie with friends, going out to dinner, cooking a nice meal or anything like that
If you can't do these things in med school, you're doing it wrong.
True, you can do those stuff, but ideally weekly or daily would be sweet. I hate being one of those people that works and just comes home to watch netflix, that is such a waste of life, I try to use my free time to stay away from home as much as possible...
The reason why the backpacking stuff was brought up was because you stated that you were sacrificing your 20's you can do that stuff now and why does this activity make your 20's so special? You make alright money in residency 50k and a decent six figure salary as an attending. If it is not another professional school I would have a hard time finding a 50k job out of college and i could expect to work 50+ hours a week with no advancement in sight.
At engineering. Engineering is difficult just because you did well in calc 2 doesn't mean that you'll exceed in engineering.A good engineering school is very, very difficult and time intensive.Not all engineering fields have the same employability.Also due to the skewed gender ration women may have a harder time in the workplace.
Here is what a grad from who recently gets his BS in engineering.
Florida cross-references employer payroll data (required by law) with the SSNs of recent graduates from the public state university system and then produces this report. These are "normal" schools in a medium-sized market with a roughly average cost of living. Here's what we see for people who graduated with a BS in CS in 2011-2012 (for all schools combined):
- Average salary is $52-53k
- A very substantial majority remain close to home, so to speak: 65% are employed locally (within the state) and 18% pursue additional schooling locally: 83% remain in Florida and are accounted for one way or another. 17% leave the state or are unemployed.
- There's very little variation in salary between schools: disregarding the two outliers, there's just $3200/year between the highest and the lowest.
- The numbers don't change much if you add Computer Engineering graduates (it looks like UF passes most of theirs students through an engineering curriculum; I'm not familiar with the programs so I don't actually know) to the mix.
Here's the methodology: http://www.fldoe.org/fetpip/method.asp
Masters in business? You need to go to a good school and work your but off to make good connections you will be working pretty hard even to make 60k,
It's easy. Unless you live in Manhattan
And there are a LOT of people who enter the workforce after undergrad...not everyone goes to grad or professional school...and those people aren't scraping by with a min. wage job or having no life, they are LIVING. IT. UP.
Ok, your admittedly wealthy friends aside, most people in their 20s are not "living it up" anymore than anyone in med school.
All my non-med friends are working jobs they kinda hate making like $50k. Sure, they go to the bar on Thursday, but then again, so did me and all my med school friends during the preclinical years. We've been on trips, gone out, generally "lived it up" while still being in med school.
Stop acting like medical school is some all-consuming, soul-crushing endeavor. It's not, and suggesting otherwise makes you look like a whiny, out-of-touch child.
no it's so easy, we should be super duper thankful we're in this position. you sound like one of those people that is a resident and says step 1 was easy
I'm not saying you have to wake up every morning and praise the lord that you were given the privilege to attend medical school. You're allowed to complain, and yes, certain parts of medical school can be tiring and difficult. I understand that, and I've probably done my fair share of bitching too.
But to climb up on your high horse and act like you're some martyr because you "sacrificed your 20s" to learn a skill that will eventually pay you 3-4x/year what your college-educated friends make is downright ridiculous. Medical students (or doctors in general) do not have a monopoly on hard work or long hours.
Oh, and step 1 WAS easy.
I'm not saying you have to wake up every morning and praise the lord that you were given the privilege to attend medical school. You're allowed to complain, and yes, certain parts of medical school can be tiring and difficult. I understand that, and I've probably done my fair share of bitching too.
But to climb up on your high horse and act like you're some martyr because you "sacrificed your 20s" to learn a skill that will eventually pay you 3-4x/year what your college-educated friends make is downright ridiculous. Medical students (or doctors in general) do not have a monopoly on hard work or long hours.
Oh, and step 1 WAS easy.
I'm not saying you have to wake up every morning and praise the lord that you were given the privilege to attend medical school. You're allowed to complain, and yes, certain parts of medical school can be tiring and difficult. I understand that, and I've probably done my fair share of bitching too.
But to climb up on your high horse and act like you're some martyr because you "sacrificed your 20s" to learn a skill that will eventually pay you 3-4x/year what your college-educated friends make is downright ridiculous. Medical students (or doctors in general) do not have a monopoly on hard work or long hours.
Oh, and step 1 WAS easy.
It is so not easy. 93 gas? Foods? Gym memberships? Pilates lessons? Maybe a pair of shooz or two? I cant even.
True, you can do those stuff, but ideally weekly or daily would be sweet. I hate being one of those people that works and just comes home to watch netflix, that is such a waste of life, I try to use my free time to stay away from home as much as possible...
I have no idea why people think EM is a good lifestyle. While I understand EM docs work "40 hours". The shift work especially at a busy hospital man those 40 hours are pretty brutal. The next day "off" turns out to be a recovery day.
It's easy. Unless you live in Manhattan
Also:
-Live close to the hospital. My car is a 2008 and I still have less than 35K miles on it. Makes gas go a long way...I only have to fill up on average about once a month. Also helps with your car insurance plan.
-Subsidized food budget. About 2/3 of my meals (breakfast and lunch 6 days/wk) and all of my coffee/snacks get covered by our food/call stipend. Makes it easy to buy whatever I want for the other 1/3 of my meals
-School/hospital gym, or I can get a hospital discount at the local gym. Lots of options for cheap fitness. You don't have to pay $30 per class for pure barre or barry's bootcamp or some fad like that.
Bottom line - I had no issues living on my intern salary, and actually put away a good chunk of it into savings. I bought the clothes I wanted, bought the foods and booze I wanted, went out to dinner where I felt like, and had money for a nice vacation. I wasn't driving a mercedes and buying ferragamos (male equivalent of jimmy choos), but I was meeting all my needs as a single person on a pretty nice standard of living.
I had to be up for work at 5 for over 6 years and I never adjusted. Some people's internal clocks aren't as flexible as others.I've never understood the "I could never wake up that early" argument or similar. You do it because you have to and within a month or less, you're wired that way. It's no longer a burden and you eventually don't even need an alarm.
Lol'd in bed and woke up significant other. Just wanted to say props.
Ew no.
I eat at chipotle from time to time, but I'm unclear why the Cheesecake Factory is the alternative. I'd have to be paid to eat there.
When I go out to eat I go somewhere nice. Not like French Laundry nice, but actual good local food, not chain restaurant grossness.
Not true. Some shifts are soul sucking, but many are not bad.
It's actually ridiculously fun, but only if you're okay with not staying in luxury hotels. You meet awesome people, do awesome things, and generally get to haphazardly wander wherever you want. You can see pretty much ever country and so much history in two months and party harder than the law allows in America. I wouldn't recommend it for people that enjoy having set schedules during their vacation, nor for those who view a vacation as a time to just lay around and be lazy in the sun- it's an adventure, not a vacation.Backpacking across Europe?! That does not sound fun.
It's actually ridiculously fun, but only if you're okay with not staying in luxury hotels. You meet awesome people, do awesome things, and generally get to haphazardly wander wherever you want. You can see pretty much ever country and so much history in two months and party harder than the law allows in America. I wouldn't recommend it for people that enjoy having set schedules during their vacation, nor for those who view a vacation as a time to just lay around and be lazy in the sun- it's an adventure, not a vacation.
Most people think about it in the short term. They aren't looking at how they'll feel about it when they're 45 with a couple of kids, still working the night shift and holidays. Or when they're 55, still working the night shift and holidays, flipping from days to nights with only one day in between, despite their body's fading ability to adjust to alternating sleep patterns. Rotating shift work will literally kill you. It sucks the life out of you. Throw high liability, high physiological and psychological stress, and the management bull**** and surveys that ED physicians have to deal with, and it's no wonder that 60% of emergency physicians suffer from moderate to high levels of burnout and one in four completely leaves the field within 10 years.One month of actual experience as an M4 is plenty for me to make a judgement on the field's lifestyle. I wasn't in some sleepy small town ER, it was a major urban level 1. Still not seeing why everyone is so soggy about the lifestyle. 35-40 hours a week in discrete shifts is pretty sweet for any job in medicine, regardless of the shift timing.
It's way better than Eurotrip. That movie was absolute crap compared to the good time I had.so its nothing like the movie Eurotrip?
Ok, your admittedly wealthy friends aside, most people in their 20s are not "living it up" anymore than anyone in med school.
All my non-med friends are working jobs they kinda hate making like $50k. Sure, they go to the bar on Thursday, but then again, so did me and all my med school friends during the preclinical years. We've been on trips, gone out, generally "lived it up" while still being in med school.
Stop acting like medical school is some all-consuming, soul-crushing endeavor. It's not, and suggesting otherwise makes you look like a whiny, out-of-touch child.
My life as a medical student is substantially more stressful and difficult than the time I spent just working. A lot of the people I know are in healthcare (nurses, RTs, PTs), working 3 12s a week and pulling in 70k/year with four days off per week. The PAs and NPs make even more to start for the same schedule. And don't even get me started on the CRNAs that start at $75/hr, get shift differentials and OT, and have a base schedule of 3 12s.With 4 days off per week (I actually had 5 days off per week, since I just worked a 12 and a 16) and 4 weeks of paid vacation a year, life is awesome. And that's neglecting the fact that when you're off, you're off, while in medical school, there's always a test coming up, always something to worry about when you're home. Even my non-HC friends all have jobs that let them actually relax when they get home, and enjoy time with their families and hobbies, rather than studying or worrying about this or that upcoming test, or having to fit in ECs like research and volunteering and the like in their off time.Ok, your admittedly wealthy friends aside, most people in their 20s are not "living it up" anymore than anyone in med school.
All my non-med friends are working jobs they kinda hate making like $50k. Sure, they go to the bar on Thursday, but then again, so did me and all my med school friends during the preclinical years. We've been on trips, gone out, generally "lived it up" while still being in med school.
Stop acting like medical school is some all-consuming, soul-crushing endeavor. It's not, and suggesting otherwise makes you look like a whiny, out-of-touch child.
I think its subjective, some people have more rigid sleep patterns than others.
Also:
-Live close to the hospital. My car is a 2008 and I still have less than 35K miles on it. Makes gas go a long way...I only have to fill up on average about once a month. Also helps with your car insurance plan.
-Subsidized food budget. About 2/3 of my meals (breakfast and lunch 6 days/wk) and all of my coffee/snacks get covered by our food/call stipend. Makes it easy to buy whatever I want for the other 1/3 of my meals
-School/hospital gym, or I can get a hospital discount at the local gym. Lots of options for cheap fitness. You don't have to pay $30 per class for pure barre or barry's bootcamp or some fad like that.
Bottom line - I had no issues living on my intern salary, and actually put away a good chunk of it into savings. I bought the clothes I wanted, bought the foods and booze I wanted, went out to dinner where I felt like, and had money for a nice vacation. I wasn't driving a mercedes and buying ferragamos (male equivalent of jimmy choos), but I was meeting all my needs as a single person on a pretty nice standard of living.
Ew no.
I eat at chipotle from time to time, but I'm unclear why the Cheesecake Factory is the alternative. I'd have to be paid to eat there.
When I go out to eat I go somewhere nice. Not like French Laundry nice, but actual good local food, not chain restaurant grossness.
You have the cilantro gene? Tragic
Most people think about it in the short term. They aren't looking at how they'll feel about it when they're 45 with a couple of kids, still working the night shift and holidays. Or when they're 55, still working the night shift and holidays, flipping from days to nights with only one day in between, despite their body's fading ability to adjust to alternating sleep patterns. Rotating shift work will literally kill you. It sucks the life out of you. Throw high liability, high physiological and psychological stress, and the management bull**** and surveys that ED physicians have to deal with, and it's no wonder that 60% of emergency physicians suffer from moderate to high levels of burnout and one in four completely leaves the field within 10 years.
The French laundry is one of the few things I like about CA. Hrmph.
Cheesecake Factory is overrated
Chipotle dumps cilantro on everything so I refuse to eat there
Then again, my mother does have this nasty habit of figuring out what office I'm working at and "dropping by" with chai and lunch most days...aggravating
The bold is the problem, not that 1 month is not enough time to figure it out like others are suggesting. You have plenty of time to reflect on this and speak with EM docs in their 40's and 50's while you rotate. And after all the whining and tears shed for working that night shift on christmas eve, you're still working far fewer hours than most fields in medicine.
The ED docs at one of our hospitals work 3 12 hr shifts per week. There are things to whine about in EM, but lifestyle isn't one of them.
As a brown guy there is nothing better than having chai in the morning, goes well with a crepe.
I think you can ask chipotle to have cilantro-free rice if I'm not mistaken.
Wait YOURE BROWN TOO?!?!
mind blown
Shots firedhas it ever occurred to you that not all brown people are Hindu/Muslim have the name Raj or Neel and can be Christian and have names like Jeff. lol
it should mind brown, not mind blown
Most people think about it in the short term. They aren't looking at how they'll feel about it when they're 45 with a couple of kids, still working the night shift and holidays. Or when they're 55, still working the night shift and holidays, flipping from days to nights with only one day in between, despite their body's fading ability to adjust to alternating sleep patterns. Rotating shift work will literally kill you. It sucks the life out of you. Throw high liability, high physiological and psychological stress, and the management bull**** and surveys that ED physicians have to deal with, and it's no wonder that 60% of emergency physicians suffer from moderate to high levels of burnout and one in four completely leaves the field within 10 years.