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bmcgilligan said:Obviously type B is not a parent (and neither am I for that matter) A woman gestates a baby for months. During that time the baby moves within her. She grows to love that baby, usually naming it before it is even born. How hard would it be to just give up hope on that baby?
I don't know. This is a "slippery slope" issue. I am going to be a physician, not a god.
I don't know that being a parent has much to do with it. My own mother is one of the biggest advocates of abortion and not intervening with newborns that have no realistic possibility of living a semi-independent, normal life. She doesn't want me to do pediatrics or OB/GYN for precisely that reason.
My mother is a teacher and taught boys with muscular dystrophy and children with cystic fibrosis during the 1980s for several years at a school for handicapped children. Perhaps that's why she feels the way she does,
Perhaps the problem is with the mother's (and father's) themselves. My family is of a culture where telling someone you're pregnant in the first trimester is seen as taboo. It used to be that people worried about "bad spirits," but I think it's in this modern day, that idea still has its place...what happens if something goes wrong? I remember when a woman at work was going around telling everyone that she was 2 WEEKS pregnant. Two weeks!? Anything could happen in the first month. Heck, at two weeks, I'd be worried the test isn't even that accurate yet! I'm certainly not saying a woman in the third trimester should act as if there's no baby on the way, but I do think couples who start saving for the college fund and decorating the baby room in the first few weeks of pregancy could easily be setting themselves up for tragedy.