The idiot's explanation (i.e. mine) is that less EDV means the ventricle is more "collapsed" and allows the obstruction to become more pronounced (I'm extremely tired and unable to summon the correct terminology, but picture all the crap collapsing in on itself and exacerbating the obstruction).
This is like one big thing every school probably stresses in cardiology, so it's worth getting right. The outflow obstruction/murmur of HCM essentially operates opposite that of Aortic Stenosis.
So, for HCM, sudden standing = decreased venous return = decreased LVEDV = INCREASED obstruction = INCREASED murmur.
Edit: I guess it's the anterior MV leaflet or whatever that hits the IV septum. With decreased preload/EDV, you have a greater likelihood it will make contact with the septum.