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I think you’ve misread my posts. I haven’t ever said anything about racism, sexism, homophobia etc not existing. Of course there are bad people who treat people poorly. That’s undeniable. What I have a problem with is the hysterical, outrage, victimization, identity politics culture that is now the sad state of things in America, largely perpetrated by the main stream media and the left. They want to paint the picture that America sucks. America is a racist, sexist country where the evil white man oppresses everyone. And I think that’s hurting society as a whole and hurting relationships between different groups.
Are there racist cops? sure. Are all cops racist? Of course not, most are great, brave people putting their lives on the line every day for the public good. Yet when the media vilifies them and makes it seem like they are all evil and out to get black people, is that good for society? Do they ever publicize when a white cop shoots an unarmed white man? Of course not. Again, not to say racism doesn’t exist, but the hysteria and racist narratives CONSTANTLY being painted by the media hurts society.
Are there sexist people? Sure. Is society now, more than anytime in the past, a better place for women to succeed than it has ever been? Of course. Yet all you hear about is how our sexist president hates women and every male has inherit toxic masculinity and privilege and blah blah blah about mansplaining, man spreading, and what ever other man-whatever they wanna come up with. Repeated nonsense about the gender wage gap permeates every discussion about women in the work place and taints women’s views of society and makes them feel like they are victims before they even start the rat race. I don’t want my girls (they are little btw) growing up in a world where they are told that they are setup to fail and are oppressed by society as a whole, when it’s just not true. And of course I want them to be wary of dangerous situations and to be safe on dates and at parties, but I don’t want them to live in fear that they have a chance to be raped by every other guy they meet.
Is there climate change? Sure. Should we try and limit atmospheric (and other) pollutants? Sure. Should we have the crazy climate catastrophe hysteria that has people wanting transform the world based off of just that, hysteria? No. Should we ban our only cheap and reliable energy sources in favor of crappy technology that isn’t ready to replace fossil fuels? No. Should we raise taxes a bunch and make everyone stop flying in planes and ban every car that’s not electric? No. Should we crush developing societies around the world and literally endanger people’s lives who depend on fossil fuels to survive because we think the world is gonna end in 12 years? No.
The point being, all the evil things you say exist, DO exist, but not at all to the degree that the left claims, and I largely feel that the hysteria and victim culture that is so prevalent today is only driving people to be more tribal and to have more animosity towards each other because it isn’t giving people the opportunity to grow up and experience the world for themselves. Media tells our youth that they are entering a racist, bigoted, sexist world and warps their minds with nonsense so they are so skeptical of everyone before they even have a chance to interact. It’s not good. It’s just not.
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The 24 hour news cycle is horrible, so I agree with you on that.
My apologies if I attributed the quote about racism and sexism doesn't exist to you, someone else must've said it.
I'm not sure what you mean by hysteria.
I guess previously you weren't aware of the fight that marginalized people were putting up since social media and the 24 hour news cycle wasn't around?
Trust me, as long as I've been alive my family and friends have been a part of organizations and protests and movements to better things in this country. From slavery to jim crow laws to now, this is nothing new for us. As @BoolaHI said giving black kids, specifically black boys, the talk about how to interact with the police is nothing new since police brutality is nothing new. Teaching girls how to stay safe around boys/men is nothing new since sexual assault is nothing new. So this "hysteria" about racism and sexism is nothing new, but maybe you were unaware of it before since the news didn't cover things 24/7 and there was no social media?
And then what do you think is going to happen when you have a president who says mexico is bringing their rapists and that he likes to grab women by the *****???????? I mean come on now, for people not to react to that would be pretty insane. Of course there is going to be hysteria. Would you be ok with your daughter's teachers or coaches talking to them like that and acting like that? I 100% GUARANTEE that if Obama had even said 1 of the things that trump has said then this would be a completely different conversation because Obama wouldn't made it past go to be the presidential nominee. So yes trump's words (and actions) have gotten people pissed since he is the leader of this country.
From 2016 to 2017 hate crimes motivated by race/ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, disability and gender have all increased (per the federal justice department).
So you think people should just be ok with that and stay silent?
Lastly in regards to cops, I'm glad you recognize that some are racist. Again, no one ever said that EVERY SINGLE PERSON OR COP in this country is racist. However, when you have a racist history that is in every fabric of your life, then what do you think is going to happen? Cops have the ability to literally change a person's life forever and/or to kill them. So yeah it's pretty damn important that there are ZERO racist cops. Same with doctors since we literally have the ability to change and end people's lives. I don't care as much if my garbage person is racist, but my doctor or a cop, of course I'm going to make a big damn deal about them being racist and the need for overhaul in the system. You really should read about the history of racism, the justice system and police so maybe you'll understand why it's problem.
I'm certainly not a victim and I guarantee you that the vast majority of people who are involved in organizations with me don't feel that way either. If I could I certainly would not change the fact that I'm a black woman, no way. However, we're not going to stay silent and we are going to teach the next generation how to deal with a world that isn't always friendly (notice I didn't say never friendly). Maybe the truth hurts? But it certainly is the truth. You should consider that since you're raising kids, specifically daughters, so that you can prepare them for the world.
So since you asked, my point is that hopefully the next president and other politicians will understand the importance of this to use their words and actions to enact policies that emphasize the importance of attempting to help lessen and eliminate racism, sexism, homophobic, and xenophobia because right now the exact opposite seems to be happening....hence why people are upset. It would be nice if people had some empathy and understanding.