Ok, having turned 30 last week, I do not feel old at all. I am hoping to start med school this fall, and I don't have any doubt that there will be many other people that are my age that I will be able to socialize with, so don't think that late 20's or 30's or any age really is too old for med school.
I sometimes stop and think how behind I am in life. "If I had started in xxxx I would be done by now." But I don't dwell on it.
I used to feel this way, now I'm in no hurry! Regardless of the order in which we do things in our lives, the only thing that matters is that we are happy. I am not miserable right now, so I have taken my time with things. I don't compare myself to anyone because everyone is different and you will never measure up to people that you put on a pedistal. My life is rich in ways that others are not, and even though I will probably be 40 before I start practicing medicine on my own, I will still be doing what I want to do. I will be 40, 50, 60 some day no matter what (God willing), I would rather be 50 and practicing medicine than 50 and flipping burgers.
I'm also in my late 20's in medical school. I am considering leaving. I am not sure if spending the next several years in school is really condusive to future happiness. I am not so sure this is a good idea. It might be too much of a sacrifice and I might end up a bitter old career woman living with cats. Any comments?
Cats are good! Get a cat, but stay in school! You have a lifetime to be happy, a few years of hard work or sacraficing your social life is not going to leave you a bitter old cat woman.
I'm reviving this months-old thread because I wanted to add the story of an MD and prof out here in L.A. I invited her to speak to my club, the Pre-Med Club for Non-Traditional Students in Los Angeles, on the topic of having babies during med school. I found out during the talk that she was a non-trad herself--getting into med school in her late 20s--and she gave birth to 3 babies during med school and 1 during residency! She said that she felt it was easier that they were babies during med school, because as they got older, they required more of her time! As babies, they slept so much and could be soothed in the arms of aunts, uncles, grandparents, nannies... As children, they just wanted their MOM!
WE CAN DO IT, ladies! Don't fall into the trap of thinking it's too hard. And big big props to all you moms in med school!!!
I'm really glad to hear this story! I worked in a teaching hospital, and there were female residents having babies all the time. Of course it is not ideal, but honestly there is no perfect way to time a family, and really there is no perfect way to plan/run your life. We all have to do the best that we can with our lives, and find something that is going to make us happy in the end. I have three kids, the youngest is 4 months old, and the more that I think about it, the more determined I am to get into med school and make them proud of me!
Oh my, I just read thru my reply and this has to be one of the sappiest things that I've written on here, but really it does make me feel good to see so many people on here that are taking this path, which as a previous poster said, is not really all that uncommon any longer.