I went from stay at home mom... to college student... to college student working 34 hrs a week. I quit cooking and cleaning by myself. My family knows that I am not going to do it all. In fact, I only cook on Sundays and my house is a wreck. When I finish pharmacy school, I'll cook more often and I'll get a maid!!!
My family comes first, but the house work and cooking come dead last. They will not die if the house is dirty or if they have to eat ravioli from the can....again!!
My husband was not supportive at all in the beginning, and we almost divorced (not just because I'm in school). He turned over a new leaf last November. He helps with the housework....a little, but MUCH more than before. He is being very supportive of me in ALL that I am doing now.
As mother/wife, we can not do it all. We maybe super women, but we can only do so much! My 16 year old daughter is a GOD send. If it wasn't for her helping out so much at home in the house and with our six year old, I don't know how I'd manage. I have promised her a new car when I graduate for all that she has done to help me be successful. I told her we would get matching Honda Accords!!!! (I've been driving the same 1994 Honda Civic since.... 1994!!! Mama wants a new car!!!)