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(Sorry RD, I didn't realize you were in Canada)
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Yeah, RD, I'm sorry you're in Canada too, hahaha. It's 70' here.
(Sorry RD, I didn't realize you were in Canada)
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Yeah, RD, I'm sorry you're in Canada too, hahaha. It's 70' here.
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Yeah, RD, I'm sorry you're in Canada too, hahaha. It's 70' here.
Do you know how much I want to swear at you right now JN! All I have to say is that I'm glad Im in BC where it's 'warmer'. Lol, my brother lives on the prairies and has been texting me pictures all day of the snow. It must really suck where you are right now RD.
It was a brisk 62 or so a couple days ago (thankfully it warmed up to about 76 or so by mid-morning). BRRRRR!!!!
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I can picture her in one of those over-sized fabric bug suits, sorta flailing around in a bed or something, with her antenna's and whatnot all over the place.
Yeah, RD, I'm sorry you're in Canada too, hahaha. It's 70' here.
Do you know how much I want to swear at you right now JN! All I have to say is that I'm glad Im in BC where it's 'warmer'. Lol, my brother lives on the prairies and has been texting me pictures all day of the snow. It must really suck where you are right now RD.
Shut up shut up shut up! I was thinking about you today while I walked to the parkade in gale-force winds and snow.
Anyway for the update, my dad completely screwed up talking to management and he agreed to their terms. So I gave him a pep talk yesterday and explained how much money I've paid already trying to take care of this situation and he's going to call back today and maybe not be such a pushover.
A prof stopped me in the hallway yesterday and asked how my situation is (I don't recall telling him so my advisor must have since they work closely together). He said the sweetest thing about how first year is tough already without bug problems and he just totally understood. He's the one I wanted co-supervision with. So I emailed him to thank him for taking the time to talk to me 'cause it made all the difference in the world, compared to the responses I've been getting from other profs who notice that I'm stressed.
And may I just say to JN and T4C...THANK YOU!
Today on the exam, one of the questions was a conversion from F to C just below the degrees you were talking about. Yay, I felt like a rockstar
RD. I wouldn't say that I rocked the exam, but I got 120 better than I did the last time I took it. Not as high as I would have liked but I'm above the minimum cut off so I'm happy about that .
That's hillarious... now we all have to consider what type of insect RayneeDeigh would be.
hey Raynee, what's up? Give us an update
My dad's staying with me for the weekend but he's kind of a ***** and keeps saying he doesn't understand why this is a problem for me.
Raynster, goes easy on your pops. Just because he does not dye his hair, get tattoos, and write ad nauseam on SDN, does not make him a *****. Show your parents some respect. Someday, you will be a parent (God help us ) and you would want the same respect bugs or no bugs.
Update??
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I just told JockNerd last night that things were getting better.l
Ahh...I should have known...I mean, that is the kind of stuff a mod should know, right?!!
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What the hell is wrong with these programs? You would think that psych PhD students/faculty would be too busy to gossip.
Well Ollie, I think you're lovely so to hell with them.
Oh trust me...people will FIND TIME to gossip. It really can be childish. I pretty much only speak two a few people in my program now, though that is in part to me never be on campus anymore.
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I'm still doing fantastic.
If it continues I may talk to the DCT without dropping anyone else's name
I'm still doing fantastic.
I was thinking about this today and wondering if the situation had improved/declined...
Been listening to your story for sometime now. I really feel bad about both your situations. However, I have to say, the program you attend really bothers me. What in the world is going on there? My Ph.D. program is pretty warm and cuddly (students and faculty), but still, even with all the work, your program sounds so much more "pressured," for lack of a better word I guess. Second, I cant imagine having a mentor that tries to "dump" you, I mean, how horrible! How do you think this will effect your ability to grow as a researcher in your lab?
I'm not dumping on your program or anything, I am just so sad to hear that you have to walk around the halls actually avoiding people, like it's high school or something. I cant imagine trying to grow and prosper in a situation like that. But hats off to you, I don't think I would know what to do in a situation like that. My program is just so different, and I guess I assumed being in the field we are in, faculty know what would make students feel accepted and what would make them feel ostracized or disenfranchised. Happy grad students equal productive grad students I would think, not vice-versa. And we all know that faculty want the most productive grad students they can get right? So why would they not set up and maintain an environment that fosters this? After all, its for their benefit too, and they get to reap the rewards (i.e., pubs). I just don't get it? I really hope your fellow students are being supportive? I don't know what I would do without the support or my fellow students (sharing reading, doing study guides, giving us bootlegged copies of SPSS...LOL) Our once a week happy- hour meeting really saves us some weeks...
Wow, this thread is making me nervous! I hope everything works out for you guys.
Just out of curosity, had you found out about your program's issues before accepting the offer, would you still have accepted the offer or would you have waited and reapplied to programs the next cycle? (My apologies if this question is overintrusive!)?
Well Raynee, that is just outrageous! Did you report this TA? Does this person actually think this is appropriate behavior for a person in a professional role/environment? Are these people forgetting or just ignorant about the basic foundations of psychology and leaning theory. I mean our TA's take us out for drinks and stuff around here...lol.
I'm not necessarily buddy-buddy with all the people in my program, but certainly everyone is supportive. I mean we are all on the same side. So people are really going out of their way not to be supportive and annoy you? Wow! Are these these people in your lab, or the kind of people that treat grad school like its some kind of twisted competition...lol. I've heard there are places like that. I'm glad to hear you have made some good friends though. I agree that this can help the situation significantly. I'm not really into to forensics, but it sounds like you researching some neat stuff there. I hope your lab isn't to stiffing of your ideas while you are there. What a waste that could be for them to not use all their potential. Don't you agree!