nothisizpatrick
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y’all. it happened 🥲 i’ve been savoring it over the past few days, but I wanted to hop on and send hugs + hope to the other WL baddies on here. especially the ones with zero As (yet). even more so to the ones with lower stats. it can be discouraging to come on here seeking support and instead finding fellow pre-meds pointing out, or worse, even complaining about people with lower stats “getting in before them” (no shade to anyone but it’s not the best look imo). no one knows anyone else’s journey or life story. if you’ve made it this far, knowing you did your best every step of the way, you’re just as “worthy” of a seat. period and don’t you forget it.I’ve been a lurker for so long, but this manifestation thread seems to be working, so I’m tapping in. I WILL be called off a WL/directly accepted very soon. period and amen!
This process is beyond unnecessarily exhausting (and exploitative but what isn’t lol), so sending good vibes to all. It personally helps me to remember that being a physician is a job. One that we all (hopefully) are passionate about and will have positive impacts through, but nonetheless, just a job at the end of the day. Whether it’s your first or third time through this, you’ve made it this far and that’s not something to take lightly. Don’t lose yourself to this! Don’t lose sight of other things that make you happy (or could make you happy).
now, why did I call all of us former and current waitlistees baddies? because we are. we’ve made it past almost every filtering step thus far. remind yourself that it’s not necessarily you, it’s them (i.e., the growing competitiveness of the process). because even if a school loved 100% of their applicants equally, the logistics just don’t allow for a seat for everyone. so if necessary, you’re gonna check-in with yourself, be positively proactive, jump back on the horse , and show schools how much you want this, while enjoying another year of no med-school-or-grueling-medical-career life. y’all got this.
and I'm preaching to the choir when I say this, but if there's a WL school that seems receptive to LOIs based on past + current SDN threads (which was gratefully the case for me), I definitely recommend sending a strategic LOI if you have yet to. I'm aware that their value has declined over the year as more students don't follow through on them, so pls don't send one just to send one and possibly further screw over future pre-meds more than the process already does lol. But if you're on multiple WLs, carefully consider how realistic getting into your top choice is based on the movement they've seen/expect combined with the strength of your app, and maybe choose a new "top choice" based on that, a school where you have a "better" shot at and could see yourself still thriving. I'm sure we've all sent LOIs at this point but just my two cents for future pre-meds or re-applicants who find themselves in WL purgatory.
now let me go burn all this MCAT retake material right quick.............
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