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and I was the one who said i wanted to marry a doctor, and I don't want my life cooking, cleaning, or even watching the kids for most of the day!
stinkycheese said:Are you for real? A liberal woman who doesn't agree with you must be lonely and unintellectual? You're a hopeless case.
Same diff, to me, since I'm not against marriage at all. I would absolutely like to get married -- to the right person. But I'm not going to define myself by whether or not I do end up married.
Nah, that's not what women's progress means. Women's progress means a recognition of the idea that men should pitch in equally in the home and that both partners can have a career. I'm sorry you just don't get that.
Yeah, but there is also a sense of accomplishment, independence, and pride that comes from having a career. Women are entitled to that feeling as well. It can be very isolating to be home alone with children all day. Many women crave adult interaction. Men are not entitled to a more well-rounded and fulfilling existence simply because they have a penis.
I don't need anyone to care for me, but I would like to be in a marriage/long-term relationship where my partner and I cared equally for each other.
Hmm, I don't think relationships are as clear-cut as you would make them out to be.
Are you willing to sacrifice a career for your wife's career? So that she can have the job she wants, and you can stay home? No? Why not? Aren't you willing to sacrifice anything for your wife? No? Then why should she? [sarcasm]Because she has a vagina, you say? <Slaps forehead> Ah!!! NOW I get it! All this time, thinking there was no good reason for a woman to have to sacrifice her career goals so that her husband could achieve his? You have finally put it into place for me. IT'S THE VAGINA! Vaginas aren't as good as penises! And they don't have hanging bits! [/sarcasm]
Who said anything about a marriage of convenience? If anything, you men who want to find a bride who conforms to your standard of what a wife should be are looking for convenience. True love means wanting the person you are with to achieve all that they desire. Apparently, that just wouldn't be okay with you unless you find a woman who solely desires to raise a family.
I am sorry you seem to feel that the only way a relationship is valid is with a marriage license. I also don't know why you're harping on this "partner" thing, since I never said I was against marriage. But back to what makes a relationship valid: I suppose you don't believe that gay couples love each other the way hetero couples do either, huh? Cause they don't have that precious marriage license (unless they live in MA)?
Nice try on the low blow, but it didn't work. I am extremely close to my family. My parents are still married. I come from a traditional home. Isn't it just shocking that someone who has a close family could *gasp* ever grow up and become a big bad liberal who believes in gender equality?
No one said marriage wasn't beneficial. YOUR idea of a marriage, meaning the woman stays home and cooks dinner and wipes noses while the father works, isn't necessarily beneficial.
Probably. Damn those women, thinking they're intelligent.
All liberal women have those stone-cold hearts, don't they? What kind of red-blooded American woman wouldn't want to spend every waking moment with a babe pressed to her bosom? Any woman who thinks otherwise is just... cooooollllllddddd.
Well, everyone, let's call the parade coordinators.
Does your "girlfriend" know that you don't "consider" her an "equal"?
You gotta hand it to the man... he can still overgeneralize with the best of 'em.