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Hi there SDN,
I found this site after doing some research and unfortunately I am in a bit of a hole right now. I do not expect to be an MD in my life due to the situation I have dug myself into but I will give you guys explanations about my situation and hope that you can offer up some advice. Here is my story.
Early in my college career, I had a major issue with helicopter immigrant parents that put me in the worst situation academically. They pushed me into taking 18 hours my first two semesters and majoring in physics, they said it is the only way I could get into med school and be competitive for it. We know they were wrong but I was a spineless wimp that refused to stand up to them. Needless to say, a hopeful college experience I was planning on having ended up a wreck. After finishing my first year of college with a 2.5 GPA, I fell into a deep depression but my parents kept pushing me to finish my degree. What made it even worse is that they were literally all over my life, did not let me commute by myself, and even pulled me out of the library when I was studying telling me I was late for dinner. It was hell!
My dad was a very intimidating and selfish kind of person who would pull all sorts of stunts to get his way, including turning my mother against me and pressuring me into academic situations I knew I was not going to thrive in. Don't know why he did it, but he did it and I was too big of a wimp to stand up to him back then.
Well, my GPA did rise a bit to the 2.9 range which was good enough to get me a chance of transferring to some of the state schools. I ended up leaving home but my new university was much tougher, I underestimated how difficult it would be. I ended up failing upper level science classes due to my lack of good time management skills, first time being on my own, and suffering from the depression due to the trauma my parents put me through (not just academically but other areas as well, went on a few family vacations with them where they constantly belittled me and told me how worthless I was compared to other kids, even said they would be happy if I was dead).
Anyways, after seeking some much needed psychological help and finally getting over this, I feel like a huge weight has been taken off my back when it comes to outside factors to where I can focus on my academics now. Problem is, I am in my final year of college and sitting on a 2.2 GPA.
I know that med school is practically out of the question for me now (a MD is for sure) but I would still like to work in the medical field. Due to my poor decisions and circumstances, I know that I will never be an MD but I want to know, what are other careers in the medical field I can look into that will be a realistic possibility for me at this point? I was thinking PA school but I want to hear from you guys about how to better my situation.
I feel better mentally and I know I can get better grades but unfortunately I am in my final year of college. Luckily, I have managed to gain complete independence from my parents and I take FULL responsibility for my awful grades and poor transcript.
I found this site after doing some research and unfortunately I am in a bit of a hole right now. I do not expect to be an MD in my life due to the situation I have dug myself into but I will give you guys explanations about my situation and hope that you can offer up some advice. Here is my story.
Early in my college career, I had a major issue with helicopter immigrant parents that put me in the worst situation academically. They pushed me into taking 18 hours my first two semesters and majoring in physics, they said it is the only way I could get into med school and be competitive for it. We know they were wrong but I was a spineless wimp that refused to stand up to them. Needless to say, a hopeful college experience I was planning on having ended up a wreck. After finishing my first year of college with a 2.5 GPA, I fell into a deep depression but my parents kept pushing me to finish my degree. What made it even worse is that they were literally all over my life, did not let me commute by myself, and even pulled me out of the library when I was studying telling me I was late for dinner. It was hell!
My dad was a very intimidating and selfish kind of person who would pull all sorts of stunts to get his way, including turning my mother against me and pressuring me into academic situations I knew I was not going to thrive in. Don't know why he did it, but he did it and I was too big of a wimp to stand up to him back then.
Well, my GPA did rise a bit to the 2.9 range which was good enough to get me a chance of transferring to some of the state schools. I ended up leaving home but my new university was much tougher, I underestimated how difficult it would be. I ended up failing upper level science classes due to my lack of good time management skills, first time being on my own, and suffering from the depression due to the trauma my parents put me through (not just academically but other areas as well, went on a few family vacations with them where they constantly belittled me and told me how worthless I was compared to other kids, even said they would be happy if I was dead).
Anyways, after seeking some much needed psychological help and finally getting over this, I feel like a huge weight has been taken off my back when it comes to outside factors to where I can focus on my academics now. Problem is, I am in my final year of college and sitting on a 2.2 GPA.
I know that med school is practically out of the question for me now (a MD is for sure) but I would still like to work in the medical field. Due to my poor decisions and circumstances, I know that I will never be an MD but I want to know, what are other careers in the medical field I can look into that will be a realistic possibility for me at this point? I was thinking PA school but I want to hear from you guys about how to better my situation.
I feel better mentally and I know I can get better grades but unfortunately I am in my final year of college. Luckily, I have managed to gain complete independence from my parents and I take FULL responsibility for my awful grades and poor transcript.
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