My bad. If you had asked me about this 8 months ago, I'd say it'd be more than okay to feel excessively neurotic and stressed and emotional about some weird admissions decision like this, even tho it doesn't help one bit. But now? I've grown quite numb from all the BS from this year. So now I don't really give a damn what some admissions office tells me or would tell me. "I got rejected again? Sucks. Guess I'll drink again tonight." "I got on the waitlist after being rejected? Cool beans, guess I have a shot, tho it's probably still low since they had to un-reject me first."
I am fully aware of the energy/emotions that people have invested. I've been an emotional train wreck, as we all can remember. But now? I just don't care anymore. The foolish idealism I had going in is gone now. There's no more need to get so worked up about one school's admissions office's decisions. Duke is
not obligated to be perfect or polite. IMHO, they can do whatever they want because they are a top 10 school; they are
not obligated to hold your hand every step of the way and treat each applicant like they are a special snowflake. Just like parents are
not obligated to do jacksh** for their children (which we have all established, correct?), Duke is
not obligated to be overly sensitive and bend over backwards for their applicants.
Sorry, y'all, but the real world sucks. We all have to live in it, so we might as well get used to it.
@efle was not too far off with his comment.