Panda Bear said:
It means a state which is held in disdain by those who live on the coasts even though its inhabitants probably enjoy a higher quality of life for much less money.
For the price that my twin brother paid for a 1400 square foot house in the Boston area you can get a house three times the size with a huge yard and a swimming pool here in Shreveport.
Certainly there is more "culture" in Boston but like Joesph Geobbels when I hear the word "culture" I reach for my revolver.
It's always funny when I hear big city people talk as if small town America is some paradise. I grew up in a small city in Texas much like Shreveport; population was ~ 150K. Let's just say that I'm not white. Growing up there was an experience because your race, religion and nationality is always an issue. Most of the time, it's not a bad issue but you are constantly treated as if you are foreigner despite the fact that I was born and raised in the U.S. and is a red blooded American male just like anyone else. I would get asked all the time why I didn't have an accent when i spoke English. When i told them that I was born and raised in the U.S., they still didn't get it. It was just so unbelievable to them that a person of a different race could speak English with an American accent because they assumed my parents taugh me English so I should have an accent like them. When it came to dating, there were issues too because I wasn't Christian. People would come up to me and say they are going to pray for me because they thought I was going to hell. They would remind me to my face that I was going to hell. Some women wouldn't date me because their parents frowned on dating someone of a different race. It was okay for me to be friends with their daughter but I wasn't allowed to date them.
And lastly, the racial jokes were irritating. In the South and in small towns, people there believe it's okay to use racial epithets on a regular basis. It's strange because these people were not racist per say,they were not trying to offend me but they thought it was okay to use the word N word, gook or camel jockey in a joking manner and that I should just go along with it because they were trying to be funny. And my race was always an issue. If someone met me, the first they noticed about me was my race and ask what country I was from. Even my so-called friends tried to make me out as a stereotype as opposed to a person. Again, these people had very little exposure so they didn't know better.
While we are at it. Let's talk about the quality or lack thereof of high school education. Football and sports were number one at my school. The education was substandard. We spent an entire year, learning to write one term paper. We had an "honors" system at my high school but it was more or less a class distinction. The preppy kids were in the honors classes despite the rigor of the classes were not much more difficult than the regular classes. They just found a way to prevent the rich kids from being in class with the blue collar kids. The odd thing is the blue collar kids and the rich kids had the same mentality. Unlike wealthy parents in more diverse cities, in our city, the wealthy inherited their wealth so their mentality was very blue collar. Most rich parents didn't make anything of themselves and usually inherited property, oil wells or some business like the local mill or bottling company. My classmates that chose to attend college usually went to the state school for the purpose of joining a frat and partying.
I live in a large city now and I would never expose my children to that backward life I experienced. It's funny because I'm treated like a normal person now but it was quite a challenge growing up in the South. My parents chose to live in small town America to escape the hustle of living in New York City. Yes, the cost of living was low and the stress on my parents (physicians) was low because small town life has it's perks.
I think if you are a white, conservative and Christian, small town life is great. I think you will fit in but if you are liberal, and/or not white, small town life can be hell. It was for me. And I think liberal is a strong word to describe me. I'm not liberal in the sense that most people define liberal but relative to where I was, I was pretty liberal.
I'm just presenting this view because I keep hearing on SDN about how these physicians think it's going to be perfect when they move to some small city in the South because they can make a lot of money and have a low cost of living not to mention reduced stress. But there is definitely a price to paid for lving in a small city. I'm not an intellectual snob. I don't need to live in a city like Boston to have access to great restaraunts and museums. But I realize now that living in a large metropolitan city on one of the coasts has it's advantages because you get to be around normal people. I don't think it is asking too much to be surrounded by people who educated and tolerant. That is a huge perk in and of itself.