The tone of the article is definitely based on being an attending and not a resident. To be honest, I've seen several articles like this that bemoan life as a physician, and I tend to think they're whiny and stupid. Medicine really is a fantastic career.. I hope no one reads my comments and thinks that I hate my career and think nobody should go in to it. All I'm saying is that I give a healthy warning that it's not for everyone.
I'll moan to non-medical friends about my work hours, but to be honest, they're not that bad. It's just a cheap shot for sympathy. I feel like this article and many others I've read are the same way. OMG the plight of the physician... really isn't that bad. Yeah, paperwork and all of that sucks. Not getting to spend time with your patients really, really sucks. Declining reimbursement, government mandates, etc all suck. But at the end of the day, I don't think anyone should feel sorry for us for being a physician. We're damn lucky to get to do what we do.
I agree with you that there are many who don't mind their role as residents and the sacrifices we make. I think a lot has to do with priorities and our place in life. A single guy who lives to operate will have a different perspective on a 14 hour day than me, who would love to go home and see his wife and kid. Also note that as a general surgery intern, I'm not doing urology, so I'm less happy than I would be if I was in my chosen specialty. Ask any radiology resident how they enjoyed their internal medicine internship and they'll probably tell you they hated it. Ask an internal medicine categorical the same and they probably wouldn't mind as much.
Is it possible to still have a life? Absolutely. Friends of mine (who post here) still enjoy life to the fullest. One general surgery resident looks like she's having a great time, going out with her boyfriend, going on vacations, etc. I definitely didn't put my life on hold for medical school or residency. It's just a little harder to do, both with your time and lack of money.
I think you're misunderstanding the article. And that's ok, I would have misunderstood it as a resident, too.
The lack of free time, missing out on family moments, etc. - meh. Yes, it sucks, but (to an extent) you get used to it. And you would miss out on a lot of family moments no matter what kind of job you worked. That's certainly not unique to medicine.
The work hours are also a meh. That gets better (usually) once you're done residency. The money does, too.
The hardest transition for me, from med student to attending, was realizing just how little you matter, even as a physician, particularly if you work for a large corporation, or if you work in a non-physician owned practice. They value you for the income you generate, but any MD with the same credentials and similar work ethic would generate the same amount of income. You, as an individual, do not matter. What that means is that the second you become a liability (a VIP complains about you, because you didn't kiss their ass enough, a bad patient outcome that you couldn't avoid happens), they'll drop you like a hot rock. I know a lot of physicians who have been told, to their faces, by hospital administration, that they are expendible and easily replaceable.
The insurance companies don't care who you are as a physician either. Your clinical experience means nothing to them - you're another faceless MD/DO who ordered another expensive test for another faceless patient that this insurance company does not want to pay for.
Finally, a lot of the patients don't care either. You could be Dr. Armybound, Dr. Navybound, Dr. Whatever-bound. They value you for what you do for them, and many patients will only see you as a vending machine - tell it what you want, and out it comes. When you balk, they will get angry. Not all patients are like this, of course, but there are quite a few who do not care who you are as a person. I was taken aback by how many patients got angry that I had the audacity to *gasp* go on vacation, because it "inconvenienced them." Because I was gone, they couldn't get their disability forms, or their meds as fast as usual, or their lab results, and they took it as a personal affront that I took some time off.
Maybe I was too idealistic for too long? I don't know. I still think that the article exaggerates a lot, and I'm not miserable in my job. But, I would encourage people to go to med school only if they understood what kind of conditions they should look for in a job once they finish their training.
So it's not what you expected? That's kind of the reality of everything.
I wonder if these same doctors unhappy in medicine would be happier commuting an hour to a useless 9-5 office making 50k/year.
I might be happier, actually. Because at least I'd know that it was a useless job, and there wouldn't be this pretense that you, as a person, matter - when you actually don't. Plus, I could leave AT FIVE, instead of having 1-2 hours of paperwork to finish up that has to be done.