every year someone has there feelings hurt...every.year...or feels the need judge people on their perception of what is the proper way to think, talk, and behave.
have you noticed that very few residents, fellows, attending post here? have you asked yourself they just let all all of you just pat each other on the back ...yes there is a place for that, but blowing constant sunshine up your shorts isn't helpful.
and it looks like you are a plastics resident...so would be surprised that you are an I/FMG and really know what that means in the aspect of trying to match...you probably had very little worry that you would match or get interviews...and programs were more than falling over you to pick them...as an IMG myself, that is not necessarily the experience we have...things don't work out in SOAP on average for I/FMGs since AMGs like yourself- those AOA, high achieving med students from T20 schools that for whatever reason didn't match into their ubercompetitve specialty that most I/FMGs can't even conceive of applying to are the chosen ones in the SOAP. Even if you were an I/FMG and matched into plastics...then you would be considered a superstar in the SOAP if you had not matched.
all of these things that you want to do...thank you notes, sending letters of interest, going on second looks (though this year i guess that is not happening)...they don't make a difference to the programs...the ACGME ACTIVELY discourages ANY post interview communication...yes, this includes these kind of things...some PDs will even say DO NOT send thank you notes, letters stating that you are their number 1, etc...and those that don't, really don't pay attention to them...they go into your file ...more often than not the PC is routing them away from the PD...you really think PDs at these programs have the time to read the thousands of these emails and snail mails coming from applicants...its not like being a PD is their only job...it is just part of their job...these people are active physicians with clinics, inpatient service, research, never mind all the endless administrative meetings they have and meeting with their residents as well.
so if you were taught to write thank you notes, (i'm Southern, its ingrained to do so from when you are little kid), write a thank you note...if it will make you feel better that you did everything to make sure the program know you are dying to be at their program, write that letter...but its like buying a lottery tix when the jackpot is $1 billion...sure there maybe a winner...but most are not making their fortune with that lottery tix.
and frankly, as an applicant (which was not that long ago), i would want someone to tell me the truth...even if i don't like that answer.