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Are a lot of you guys married with kids? How
I think it's funny her bf is in her avatar.Don't let your bf tell you to settle for less if that's not what you want to do.
Having kids in med school and residency can be done. It definitely won't be easy, but it's been done. You and your SO/spouse need to be flexible, and you need to have a school that is supportive and understanding that kids have emergencies sometimes. But if you are going to school full time and your spouse is working full time, you'll absolutely need child care, either daycare or hiring a nanny. It's a huge burden to juggle kids and med school/residency, and it's not something that I'd like to do personally, but there are several people in my class with kids and they make it work.
How do you juggle it?
Last week my boyfriend told me to settle as a RN instead of becoming a phsycian because then we could have kids before five years from now, and said we didn't need the dr salary anyways. It pissed me off because dr and nurses are two different jobs and I'm not going for being a dr for the "money".
Don't let your bf tell you to settle for less if that's not what you want to do.
Having kids in med school and residency can be done. It definitely won't be easy, but it's been done. You and your SO/spouse need to be flexible, and you need to have a school that is supportive and understanding that kids have emergencies sometimes. But if you are going to school full time and your spouse is working full time, you'll absolutely need child care, either daycare or hiring a nanny. It's a huge burden to juggle kids and med school/residency, and it's not something that I'd like to do personally, but there are several people in my class with kids and they make it work.
This here. That being said, it's very telling that there isn't a woman in my class with children (or, at least, who is out about it). There are a few men in the class with children and their SOs are all outside of medicine.
There's a woman in my class with 3 kids, and a woman in 2017 with 2. But I agree, the rest of the people with kids are men with SO's who are not in medicine.