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I definitely agree with what you're saying, but I can also see how pinkpuppy would be annoyed to be told by an admissions counselor "well, your stats would be good enough if you were from a disadvantaged background." That's not helpful, because it's not something you can control or change to improve your app. Unless the admissions officer was trying to find out if there was some sort of disadvantaged circumstances that you forgot to mention on your app, maybe?As someone who has been on their own since 15 years old, and quite literally did have to claw their way out of really difficult circumstances, it's hard for me not to take offense to this. Obviously you have no idea what it is like for someone in those kinds of circumstances. What it's like to not even know if you'll be able to eat, or have somewhere safe to sleep, from one day to the next. Or the violence that you have to deal with on an almost daily basis, and the psychological impact of that. How the constant stress of those kinds of situations makes it difficult just to remember things. Or how there is no one around to tell you how to apply for college, and financial aid, and take SAT's, etc. Or that you have to work almost 20 hours at a minimum wage job just to pay for the SAT and a college application - never mind the cost of tuition and books (which a Pell Grant does not completely cover). That's if you can even get a job.
Or - if you do somehow manage to overcome all of that and get to college - God forbid something happens to you in the middle of the semester, like getting sick or hurt, so you're not able to go to work. Because then, since you're barely scraping by from paycheck to paycheck and there's no one you can fall back on for help, you might get kicked out of your place. You might end up having to drop out of class so you can work extra hours, so you don't end up back on the street. But if you do that, then your financial aid will be withdrawn. You will have to find a way to pay for those classes that you didn't finish out of pocket before you can enroll for the next semester. Classes that cost more than you'll make in the next 3 months, even if you put 100% of your income towards paying for them. (But then, what do you live on). So it could be another year before you can even start back at school... and that's just scratching the surface.
Like I said - you have no idea what it's like. I'm not saying that what you've done isn't difficult, or that you shouldn't be commended for how much you accomplished during your undergrad. But please don't compare yourself to someone who came from much less fortunate circumstances and say that you should be judged by the same criteria, because you don't compare. The ability to overcome so much adversity, and achieve what many people with more advantages couldn't, is most certainly an indicator of potential success. Because it IS success.
I think if schools are letting in students with 2.0 GPAs just because of lower socioeconomic status, that is unfair, but I don't think that's happening. Like WildZoo and Gemgrrrl said, schools just want to make sure that applicants who succeeded academically despite their circumstances are recognized. I do agree, pinkpuppy, that working full time while going to school full time definitely isn't something everyone does, let alone while maintaining a 3.6. Claiming a need to work full time while in school as disadvantaged circumstances is a stretch, but doing so and doing that well is still commendable.